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This bundle is for you if:
Your parent says "I'm managing fine," and you've stopped believing it's the whole story
You've tried bringing it up, and it turned into defensiveness or a shut door
You want them to see what you're seeing without you being the one to say it
You'd rather build the conversation than force it
What's inside
Start With One Question. Before any worksheet, you open the door. This guide shows you how to use one simple question to get your parent talking about what thriving, not just surviving, looks like for them.
Worksheet One: Living Well, On My Own Terms. This is a quality of life self-assessment across eight areas of life, from connection and purpose to safety, independence and peace of mind. Your parent sets their own bar for "enough," scores where they are, and names their own signs that something needs to change.
Worksheet Two: I'm Managing Fine. This private check-in is built on Motivational Interviewing. Instead of arguing with "fine," it asks your parent what fine actually includes these days. The gap shows up in their own handwriting.
A one-page guide for you before each worksheet. Each guide covers what the worksheet is for, when to offer it, and exactly what to say when you hand it over.
Why it works
No one likes being told they're slipping. But when people notice something in their own words, at their own pace, it sticks. These worksheets give your parent that private "maybe this isn't working as well as I thought" moment. You never have to be the one who pries, confronts or convinces.
Bonus
Inside, you'll find 15% off Hard Conversations, Handled Well: Aging Parents Edition. When you're ready to go deeper, the program helps you trust what you see, stay the daughter through the role shift, find time to talk, and build the communication skills that keep the door open.
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