
You've typed it, deleted it, and typed it again.
You've left him on read way too long because you just didn't know what to say. You've replied out of emotion and regretted it the second you hit send. And you've sent a message, watched it go unanswered, and started to spiral.
You're not bad at texting. No one ever showed you what to say.
Texting is often where it all begins. It's where he first learns who you are, what you want, and what you won't accept. It's where he decides how to treat you. One anxious text can end something promising before it starts. The right one makes him lean in.
Text This, Not That gives you the exact words for every moment, from his first "hey" to "I only want to be with you."
Inside, you'll know:
What to say when you want to flirt without chasing
How to keep the conversation flowing, and when to let it rest
What to send when he goes quiet, ghosts, or sends mixed signals
How to speak up when he does something you're not okay with
How to end it with grace when you know he's not the one
Every moment comes with three replies, Flirty, Kind, and Confident, plus the text not to send and why.
You also get:
100+ real texting moments with a quick-find index
My 7 Texting Rules
12 Texts to Keep on Your Phone
The Two Week Reset
10 Common Texting Mistakes, plus 5 bonus guides
Imagine the next time your phone lights up with his name, you smile instead of panic, because you already know exactly what to say.
No games. No overthinking. Just confident, flirty texts that feel good to send, and the right man stepping up.
Christine Campbell Pate, The Find Your Husband Coach™, has coached hundreds of women in dating and love. After years of wanting love and missing it, she created the Strict 7 Dating Strategy and met her husband within 90 days. They've been married since 2016.
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