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Annalisa Bahadur

I talk about attachment styles and give tools and strategies for relationships

School of Attachment

School of Attachment

$9.99

/Month

  • You can understand your attachment style and still struggle to change it.

  • You can know you’re anxiously attached and still panic when someone pulls away.

  • You can know you’re avoidant and still shut down when relationships become emotionally demanding.

  • You can know you need boundaries but have no idea what to say or what to do when someone ignores them.

  • You can recognize an unhealthy relationship and still find it incredibly difficult to leave.

Because knowing why you do something doesn’t automatically teach you what to do differently.

And that’s the gap I want to help you close.

HOW WE’RE GOING TO WORK ON IT

Every week, I’ll upload new modules designed to help you understand attachment in a way you can actually use in your relationships.

  • I’ll use simple analogies to make complicated attachment concepts easier to understand and remember.

  • You’ll learn practical tools and strategies for healing anxious and avoidant attachment patterns.

  • We’ll work on how to regulate yourself when your attachment system gets triggered instead of immediately reacting to the fear.

  • You’ll learn how to set boundaries through both your words and your actions - without threats, games or making yourself small.

  • We’ll look at how different attachment patterns can show up while dating so you can recognize what you’re experiencing earlier.

  • You’ll learn how to communicate what you need without chasing, overexplaining, shutting down or expecting someone to read your mind.

  • I’ll give you ready-made scripts for the conversations that are difficult to know how to have.

  • We’ll talk about how to build healthier relationships without abandoning yourself to keep someone else.

  • And we’ll also talk about what to do when the healthiest choice might be accepting that a relationship isn’t working.

You can send me two questions every week, and I’ll answer selected questions by video and post the answers inside the platform so everyone can learn from them.

You’ll also have access to unlimited one-minute video insights for those moments when you don’t need another hour-long lesson - you just need something practical to help you understand what’s happening and what to do next.

WHAT YOU GET

The goal isn’t to make you perfect at relationships.

  • It’s to help you understand yourself well enough that fear doesn’t have to make your decisions for you.

  • To communicate without losing yourself.

  • To love someone without making yourself smaller to keep them.

  • And to know that if a relationship isn’t right for you, you are capable of walking away too.

Healing your attachment isn’t just about understanding where your patterns came from.

It’s learning what to do differently when those patterns show up.

Join my monthly membership and let’s turn everything you’ve learned about attachment into something you can actually use in your relationships.