You don't need to lower your standards just because you're tired of waiting.
Dating can get confusing—especially when someone says all the right things in the beginning.
Is he actually consistent?
Does he respect your boundaries?
Does he take accountability?
Are you seeing genuine green flags... or explaining away red ones because you want the relationship to work?
Know Your Worth: Dating Standards Checklist was created to help you slow down, look beyond chemistry and words, and get clear about what you're actually seeing.
Instead of asking only, “Does he like me?” this checklist helps you start asking a much more important question:
“Is this the kind of relationship I actually want?”
✓ Your relationship non-negotiables and dealbreakers
✓ The qualities you want in a future partner
✓ How you want to feel in a healthy relationship
✓ Green flags that signal emotional health
✓ Red flags you shouldn't ignore
✓ Boundaries, communication, consistency & accountability
✓ Personal relationship goals
✓ Reflection exercises based on lessons from past relationships
✓ A final exercise to help you remember the love and respect you deserve
Someone calling himself a Christian isn't the same thing as demonstrating Christlike character.
Your checklist includes additional discernment questions to help you look deeper:
Does he carry the fruit of the Spirit?
What is his temperament like?
How does he speak?
Who does he surround himself with?
Does he actually have an intimate relationship with the Lord—or does he simply know how to sound Christian?
Does he pray?
Can he cover you in prayer?
Because choosing a Godly relationship requires more than finding someone who checks “Christian” on the dating profile.
You don't need to convince someone to value you.
You don't need to ignore what makes you uncomfortable because you're afraid of starting over.
And you certainly don't need to abandon your standards just to say you have someone.
Know your worth. Know your standards. And pay attention to what his actions are showing you.
Instant digital download. Use it privately, revisit it while dating, and let it help you stay anchored in what matters to you.