HOW TO LOVE THEM: The Astrology Dating Guide
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You know their sign. But what does that actually mean when you’re dating them?
What makes a good first date? How do they show they care? What do you say when something feels off? And how do you get closer without becoming the person who does all the work?
If you enjoyed my dating carousels, this is where we go deeper.
HOW TO LOVE THEM is a 124-page guide to all 12 Sun and Moon signs, with advice you can use in real situations—from arranging that first date to sharing a home.
Knowing Taurus likes stability or Gemini enjoys conversation only gets you so far. You still need to know how that might show up between you, what to pay attention to and what you could try next.
Inside, I bring the astrology into everyday dating, with examples, questions and words you can make your own.
For every sign, you’ll explore:
First-date ideas and ways to keep the connection going.
How they may show interest, affection and care.
What they might find difficult to ask for.
Where misunderstandings happen and what can push them away.
How to approach an argument and what should change afterwards.
Staying over, spending weekends together and building a shared life.
How to love them while keeping your own needs, friendships and independence.
A quick guide for when you want a reminder.
And yes, we get into the situations people actually deal with.
The messages are brilliant, but there’s still no second date.
You spend every weekend together, but you haven’t discussed whether you’re exclusive.
They keep saying work is busy. You’re wondering when there will be time for you.
They offer solutions when all you wanted was five minutes to moan about your day.
Each sign chapter includes a different dating situation, a practical way to approach it and an example of what you could say.
You don’t need to know much about astrology.
Start with their Sun sign—the one they probably already know. Read their Moon sign too, if you know it, to explore emotional needs and reactions more closely. The astrology is explained in plain English throughout.
You can read your own chapters as well. You may recognise something you expect a partner to understand without ever having told them.
Use this guide to ask better questions, notice how they respond and discover what works between you.
What you’ll receive
A downloadable 124-page PDF ebook covering all 12 signs, with practical examples and a quick guide for each.
By Laura McDermott
Astrologer & Esoteric Psychologist