
Mom (or Dad) handled everything. Now you have to find it all.
Your parent paid every bill, tracked every account, and kept it all in their head. Now there’s a stack of unopened mail, no idea what’s on autopay, and a hospital asking who’s responsible for what.
This checklist gives you a step-by-step plan for finding every account, bill, policy, and document. You don’t need a finance background, and you don’t need to know where to start.
What’s inside:
Step 1, Stop the Bleeding: what to do today, from collecting every piece of mail to setting up online access to accounts
Step 2, The Autopay Map: how to find every recurring bill, including the ones that never send paper
Step 3, Follow the Money: where to look for Social Security, pensions, annuities, investments, VA benefits, and income you might not know exists
Step 4, The Filing Cabinet Search: the documents to hunt for, from tax returns to deeds to DD-214s
Step 5, What You Can (and Can’t) Do Without Power of Attorney
Fill-in lines on every item plus a Master Account & Document Tracker worksheet, so everything you find lands in one place
Two bonus tricks that surface accounts you didn’t know about, including the free credit report method.
Who it’s for: Adult children stepping into a parent’s finances after a hospital stay, a diagnosis, or a sudden move, especially if you’re doing it from a distance.
Format: Instant digital download. 7 pages, with a printable PDF and an editable Word version.
Not legal or financial advice.