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The Secure Love Method

Helping Black Women break survival love patterns & build secure love.

HOW DID I GET HERE?™

HOW DID I GET HERE?™

$17$37

Maybe you’re private about this part of your life.

Maybe you’re not ready for therapy.

Maybe you’re not ready to sit across from someone—or in a group—and talk about your relationship.

But you may be ready to understand.

Ready to look honestly at the decisions you made, what you tolerated, what you hoped for—and the moments when what you knew and what you chose stopped matching.

You don’t have to tell anyone else your story before you’re ready.

You can begin with yourself.

I created another way in.

How Did I Get Here? is a 28-page, self-guided Secure Love reflection workbook designed to help you privately explore one important question:

What happened between what I knew and what I chose?

Maybe you stayed.

Waited.

Went back.

Kept explaining.

Did too much.

Kept hoping potential would become reality.

Or maybe someone got close—and you found yourself pulling away.

This isn’t about shaming yourself for what you “should have known.”

It’s about sitting with your story—privately, honestly, and in your own time—and separating what actually happened from what you hoped, feared, explained, protected yourself from, or made it mean.

Inside, I’ll guide you through signature Secure Love concepts to help you examine:

  • What you knew vs. what you made it mean
  • Where hope, fear, compassion, or protection influenced your choices
  • Whether you needed more information—or were waiting for different information
  • What your choices may have been protecting you from
  • How a Survival Love Pattern™ may have shaped what happened next

No Zoom room. No sharing your story. No explaining yourself to anybody.

Just you, the workbook, and a conversation you may already know it’s time to have.

Start privately. Start honestly. Just start.

28-page digital workbook | Instant download | $17


28-page digital workbook | Instant download | $17

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By purchasing or accessing any product, service, or digital content through this store, you agree to the following Terms and Conditions.

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Company Information

This store is operated by:

Cleonia Terry, MSW, LCSW-C
Creator of The Secure Love Method™

Website:
www.thesecurelovemethod.com

Digital Products

Products sold through this Stan Store may include:

• Digital downloads
• Online courses
• Educational materials
• Relationship frameworks
• Workbooks
• Coaching sessions
• Recorded trainings
• Quizzes or assessments

All products are for personal use only.

You may not:

• Share downloads
• Distribute content
• Resell materials
• Upload materials to other platforms
• Reproduce materials for commercial use

All materials are protected by copyright and intellectual property law.

Intellectual Property

All materials provided through this store, including but not limited to:

• The Secure Love Method™ framework
• Written content
• Videos
• Workbooks
• Trainings
• Branding
• Graphics

are the intellectual property of Cleonia Terry / The Secure Love Method™.

Unauthorized use may result in legal action.

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The Company does not store your full credit card information.

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Refund Policy

Due to the digital nature of products sold through Stan Store, all purchases are final and non-refundable.

Once a digital product has been delivered, it cannot be returned.

Exceptions may be made only in cases of:

• Duplicate purchases
• Technical delivery errors

Refund decisions are made at the sole discretion of the Company.

Coaching Sessions

If your purchase includes a coaching consultation or session:

• Sessions must be scheduled through the booking link provided.
• Cancellations must occur at least 48 hours in advance.
• Missed sessions or late cancellations will be forfeited.

To cancel or reschedule, email:

thesecurelovemethod@gmail.com

Educational Purpose

All products and services sold through this store are provided for educational and personal development purposes only.

They are not a substitute for:

• Therapy
• Mental health treatment
• Medical care
• Legal advice

No Therapist-Client Relationship

Although Cleonia Terry is a licensed clinical social worker, purchasing products or coaching through this store does not create a therapist-client relationship.

Coaching and educational content are separate from psychotherapy services.

Results Disclaimer

We do not guarantee specific results from the use of our materials, courses, or coaching.

Your outcomes depend on many factors including:

• Personal effort
• Application of material
• Individual circumstances

Limitation of Liability

The Company shall not be liable for any damages resulting from:

• Use of products
• Use of educational materials
• Coaching participation
• Reliance on information provided

All services are used at your own risk.

Governing Law

These Terms shall be governed by the laws of the State of Maryland, United States.

Updates to Terms

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Data Security

We use reasonable security measures to protect your information.

However, no online system can guarantee complete security.

Quiz Disclaimer (Stan Store Version)

Quizzes provided through this store, including the Survival Love Patterns Quiz, are for educational and self-reflection purposes only.

Quiz results are not clinical diagnoses.

They are designed to help users reflect on relationship patterns and emotional behaviors.

Taking the quiz does not establish a therapist-client relationship.

If you are experiencing mental health concerns, please seek support from a licensed mental health professional.

Coaching Disclaimer

Coaching services offered through this store focus on education, insight, and personal development.

Coaching is not therapy or mental health treatment.

Participation in coaching services does not establish a therapist-client relationship with Cleonia Terry.

Contact Information

For questions regarding purchases or policies, contact:

The Secure Love Method™
Cleonia Terry, MSW, LCSW-C
thesecurelovemethod@gmail.com
www.thesecurelovemethod.com

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