EBOOK: Can I Ask You a Question?
£24.99
You've been in the talking stage long enough to know that feelings alone aren't enough.
You want something real. Something that lasts. Something that leads to Jannah - not just a situationship dressed up as progress.
But nobody taught us how to actually do this.
We grew up in Muslim households being told not to interact with the opposite gender, then suddenly, at twenty-something, we're expected to navigate love, compatibility, and lifelong commitment from scratch. No blueprint. No framework. Just hope, butterflies, and crossed fingers.
I know because I lived it. I walked 23 miles across London after a talking stage fell apart. 103kg. Broken. Having already introduced her to my family. I thought she was the one. Then silence.
That pain built this book.
Can I Ask You A Question? is the complete guide to intentional marriage - 438 pages of questions, frameworks, real stories, and Islamic wisdom that give you everything you need to find the right person and know it with certainty before you commit.
Across 17 chapters you'll go deep on every area that makes or breaks a marriage - faith and spiritual alignment, communication and conflict, family dynamics, finances, intimacy, mental health, lifestyle, shared values, and long-term vision. Every question comes with the why behind it, what to observe in their answer, and how to tell the difference between a green flag and a red one. There's even a full chapter dedicated to spotting the people who are wasting your time.
This isn't therapy. It's preparation.
The research is clear. Couples who discuss expectations openly before marriage are significantly less likely to face conflict and dissatisfaction. Partners who share a spiritual framework report 30% higher satisfaction and stronger trust. Emotional regulation predicts marital stability more than compatibility itself.
Over 100 Muslims got married within the first year of this book being published. Not because the questions are magic. Because intention and clarity create direction.
The person you marry isn't just a life partner. They're your companion on the path to Jannah. This book helps you choose them wisely.
The shorter, focused companion guide, the Talking Stage Exit Strategy is also available on this store.
Customer 1
Id love to tell you Your book helped me so much Im getting married inshaa Allah This november.
hamza
This book has been an excellent read. It is practical, faith-based, and thoughtfully written. The questions cover all the important aspects of marriage, from values and lifestyle to communication and emotional wellbeing. It really helped me when speaking to a potential spouse, making it easier to ask the right questions and approach the process with clarity.
Aisha
This book offers a refreshing, grounded approach to relationships—one that prioritises logic, clarity, and long-term purpose over fleeting emotions. Instead of chasing butterflies, the book encourages readers to ask well-defined questions and focus on compatibility, values, and shared goals. What touched me deeply was the author’s heartfelt reflection on fatherhood. His desire to be a present, loving father and husband resonated with me, especially as someone who also wished for more time and memories with my own dad. It reminded me why choosing the right partner isn’t just about romance—it’s about building a stable, nurturing family for your future kids, where both parents are present and involved. A thoughtful and sincere read. ما شاء الله وتبارك الله Insha Allah, I will definitely read the author's future books.
ansh
Woww, genuinely wowwww. I had to rush to leave a review as I just finished chapter two, wallahi this book is absolutely amazing. Can’t wait to finish it and yes if you are thinking shall I grab one ? Yes go for it now!
Nada
So far I think the book was well-structured and easy to follow through, with each chapter being clear and concise. It was highly informative. I like the way the ideas were presented clearly and then backed by hadiths or quranic verses. The balance of theory and practice made it really engaging. In all honestly, the book flows each sub section leads to the next it merges and intertwines it really keeps you hooked on reading. 10/10 for sure!!!! Allahuma Barik
Zak
I truly appreciate this book for its thoughtful and practical approach to building a strong and meaningful marriage. The questions are not only insightful for understanding a potential spouse but also serve as a valuable tool for personal growth and self-reflection. It goes beyond the usual advice and encourages deep, intentional conversations that align with Islamic values. A recommended read for anyone looking to approach marriage with clarity and confidence.
fathi
Beautifully written, very formative and very much needed for the journey of finding the one.
amazon customer
This book is an incredible guide for anyone trying to find a partner in guide while also being very clear-cut regarding religious matters. If you're Muslim and looking to get married, then this book is exactly it! Containing questions you should ask, the foundations of a marriage, the values of a marriage and etc. It is everything you could ask for and more.
Customer 2
Yooo thanks to your book I'm completing half my deen May Allah reward you for all you do!! Would love to send you and your wife an invite iA :) it's happening in April
Hana
Great book for cutting through the talking stage! If you’re tired of the back-and-forth of endless talking stages, this book is a solid guide to getting straight to the important stuff. It helps you figure out compatibility early on by covering key topics like values, lifestyle, and long-term goals, all while keeping things rooted in Islamic principles. It’s not your typical dating guide; it actually makes you reflect on what you want and need in a partner. Definitely worth a read if you’re looking for something serious and intentional!
Nas
10/10 book. Very insightful. Honestly the best book I’ve read in a long time. I no longer feel the anxiety when it comes to finding the right partner because of the steps laid out in this book.
customer 3
one of my favorite books till this day and that's bc it taught me so much about myself!!
Customer 4
How Allah and Islamic religion is integrated into every part of the book. I think it shades a lot of light on a persons knowledge of the deen, I read the Quran in English and I also try to reflect its meanings, and a lot of the verses are in the book, so it's amazing. And also for people who like to say things oh it's just the writers thoughts, it's not entirely so, because if you actually studied your deen you would be more knowledgeable and understand better, so it's more of the Quran advices which cannot be disputed. I love the duas in the book, they are so well articulated, I literally took all out to my notepad. Amin to all of them I literally made a lot of dua on guidance related to a halal marriage guide. So yea the book is an answered dua guarding me to the right path Just Allahumma Bareek and May Allah increase your knowledge, the book is literally much needed for this generation I love how it talks a lot about tawakkul
Customer 5
Salam I was actually gifted your book twice (I think it was Allah telling me something), once I used to help me through a potential and now I'm working through it to understand myself and what I want - after reflecting I realised I didn't know myself and I could barely answer questions for myself or that reflected my own opinions & thoughts. I can now say alhamdulilah it has helped me so much and I really recommend others using it to help them discover what they would want for themselves. There's questions I have never asked myself or even thought of. May Allah put so much success in the book it's such a great book for everyone whether they are looking or not! As a bell hooks reader kdrama girl and recovering hopeless romantic myself I feel seen reading this. Your book keeps reminding me to see the journey of finding a partner not as some far off dream im chasing but as a form of worship. Allahuma baarik!