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Mariah Choate | Wholistically PsychEd

You don't need a lawyer, you just need to know what to say- 504s, IEPs, SPED

The Special Education Support System

The Special Education Support System

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THE SPECIAL EDUCATION SUPPORT SYSTEM (TSESS): Secrets From A School Psychologist

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You Don’t Need a Lawyer.
You Just Need to Know What to Say.

& this system gives you the words with over 270+ pages built into 4 modules with 18+ external docs & templates.

Most parents and educators don’t lose in school meetings because they don’t care.
They lose because they don’t know what schools are legally required to do or how to ask for it...and schools rely on that.

Confusion isn’t an accident.
It’s built into the process.

You’re handed acronyms instead of explanations.
Timelines without context.
Decisions that were made before the meeting even started.

And when you speak up?

You’re met with language designed to shut it down.

You’re told:

  • “We don’t have funding.”

  • “Attendance is the issue.”

  • “They don’t qualify.”

  • “This is just how the process works.”

You start second-guessing yourself.
You wonder if you’re overreacting.
You stay agreeable...because pushing back feels risky.

That’s not a confidence issue.
That’s an information imbalance.

And it’s exactly what keeps districts protected.


Why This System Exists

I was the insider.

The one in the closed-door meetings.
The one expected to soften language, delay timelines, and keep things moving...even when it wasn’t right.

Leaving cost me comfort.
Staying would’ve cost me integrity.

So I built what families & educators should have had from the beginning.

Not a checklist.
Not fear-based advocacy.
Not “just request an IEP.”

A system.

One that shows you:

  • what the law actually says

  • what schools are required to do

  • what to say (& why it works)

  • how to stop being dismissed...without becoming aggressive

Calm confidence is leverage. I teach you how to use it.


You’re in the right place if:

Parents:
You know something feels off...you have those gut feelings, but you don’t want to guess anymore. You want to walk into meetings clear, prepared, & confident.

Educators:
You’re stuck between doing what’s right & what admin allows. You need the legal backing to support your students & yourself without putting your job at risk.

Or simply—
You don’t want to hire a lawyer just to be taken seriously.

You don’t need permission to advocate.
You need clarity on the rights you already have.


The Special Education Support System...

This is a library, not a one-off download.
It’s a system you can return to over & over to jump directly to what you need...when you need it.

✔ Clickable Tables of Contents

No digging. No overwhelm. Just clear answers when you need them.


WHAT’S INSIDE

Behavior & Support Foundations

→ What behavior actually means (beyond compliance)
→ The behavior continuum schools are required to follow (& what to do when they don't)
→ De-escalation & trauma-informed support
→ Sensory needs & regulation
→ The behavior essentials every team should know


From Gen Ed to 1:1 Supports

→ What a 1:1 is...and what it isn’t
→ Least Restrictive Environment (LRE) and how 1:1 support actually fits
→ What to do when schools deny support
→ Eligibility criteria (clearly explained)
→ Real example reports + request templates


Behavior Data, Plans & Reports

→ ABC data & identifying function
→ FERBs (what should replace behavior that meets the same function)
→ Behavior Support Plans (BSPs) vs. Behavior Intervention Plans (BIP)—when each applies
→ Functional Behavioral Assessments (FBAs), BSP, BIP examples (plain language & example reports)
→ Breaking down behavior types: attention, escape, sensory, tangible


SPED Law & SLD (Plain Language)

→ IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act)—without legal overwhelm

→ IEP Eligibility breakdown with real-life case scenarios of what does/doesn't qualify (with red flags to look out for & exactly what to say/request when the red flags come)

→ Specific Learning Disability (SLD) eligibility explained clearly
→ Dyslexia & dysgraphia (what’s often missed)
→ The 3 eligibility models (& when to use each)
→ Templates to request specific models & supports


IEP Process, Rights & Strategy

→ Legal timelines (& how to enforce them)
→ How to identify predetermination
→ What to say in meetings (scripts included)
→ 504 vs. IEP—what actually matters
→ Case law you can reference for YOUR state/district (& exactly what to say that's law-backed)
→ What to do when they say a child “does not qualify”

→ Complete Due Process Filing - Step by Step

→ How to read through psychoeducational reports effectively (what to look for, what data *actually* matters, what IDEA eligibility to look for, etc.).


THROUGHOUT:
✔ Plain language (no legal jargon)
✔ Built for real-life situations
✔ Grounded in law + real district experience

So you know not just WHAT to say, but exactly HOW to apply in real-world scenarios.


What Makes This Different

This isn’t about being louder.
It’s about being effective.

No fear tactics.
No overwhelm.
No guessing.

Just clear, legally grounded strategy that works in real meetings.

12+ years inside the system
Across evaluations, IEPs, 504s and district decision-making

Built for real life
Not theory. Not fluff.

One goal:
You walk in prepared...and leave with clarity & best-practice next step solutions.

Because:

Guessing costs kids time.
Confusion protects systems.
Clarity changes outcomes.

& Because it works.


The Goal

The goal isn’t to win arguments.

The goal is for parents & educators to:

  • walk into meetings regulated and prepared

  • recognize when something isn’t legally sound

  • speak clearly without over-explaining

  • and protect kids without burning themselves out

You don’t need a law degree.
You don’t need permission.

You need leverage.

And leverage comes from clarity.


ABOUT ME:

I’ve sat at the table.
I’ve written the reports.
I’ve been in the rooms families never see.

And I’ve watched too many people leave those rooms confused, dismissed, & depleted.

So I left...and built what should’ve existed all along.

I’m also a mom of three young kids. I understand what it means to advocate when it’s personal.

✔ NASP Certified School Psychologist
✔ 12+ years across preschool–high school
✔ B.S. Psychology — Grand Canyon University
✔ M.S. School Psychology — Cal State LA

If you have a meeting coming up, there's too much at stake...don’t walk in guessing.

What you say (& how you say it) directly impacts what a child receives & how an educator is supported.

The difference looks like this:

Vague answers → Legal timelines in writing
Delays → Clear next steps
Feeling dismissed → Being taken seriously
Confusion → Documented clarity

You don’t need permission.

You need language.
You need clarity.
You need leverage.

This gives you all three.

→ Get Instant Access to The Special Education Support System
*NOTE: Instant access · Digital product · No refunds

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Ramona Valle - Parent

"I want to let you know u have help me so much and not just me but my son and my whole family, we're thankful for the information you share, it got to the point where the principal got fired and the whole school changed the way they were treating my son, and now follow the IEP. Thank you from the bottom of my heart."

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Julie O’Halloran

This resource simplified a lot of language the IEP team used when we first met. At my first meeting, I knew something wasn’t right so I asked for a continuation so I could educate myself. With this resource, I understood how the school was taking advantage of what they thought I didn’t understand. I came back for part 2 ready to advocate and use their law to justify my stance. At the end of the meeting, the director agreed that a lot of my procedural safeguards were violated and they are moving forward with and independent educational evaluation.

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Brenda Vega Cruz - Parent

"THANK YOU for all that you do!!! I’ve also attended a handful of IEP meetings with these moms who all have a language barrier as a parent support and, we were able to get three students AAC devices and start implementing what was being reflected on their IEP‘s and we also got a lot of comp hours for these families and everything goes back to your helpful resources that have given me the knowledge and I do everything out of the kindness of my heart. Just wanted to share with you that you’re literally helping a lot more families than what you think and again I’m forever grateful for stumbling into your page and being able to have the opportunity to meet you again just wanted to share these exciting news with you. I also helped my nephew, asked for a BIP to be put into place and they also added sensory breaks and changed his goals around."

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Diana Roy - Parent

"Explaining the process , parents right as well as offering support for teachers"

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Diandra Morales- School Counselor

"So helpful while navigating difficult behaviors & sst meetings!"

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Chris Lewis

"This system is so empowering for parents. It gives real insight into how IEP meetings work and helps families understand their options. I’ve recommended it to other parents because it’s the kind of information everyone navigating special education should have yet schools NEVER explain."

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Jason L. - School Counselor

"This resource helped me finally understand the special education process and what my role actually is. The guides are clear, practical, and not full of jargon. Plus, the behavior and intervention supports make it easy to actually implement strategies that actually work. I feel much more confident now in IEP meetings and daily classroom support and even SSTs"

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Jackie Perry - Gen Ed teacher

"Love it and have pages printed and hanging in my classroom."

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La Belle Teaching - Gen Ed Teacher

"This resource has been invaluable in writing recommendations!”

It's time to STOP being dismissed

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