When classroom behaviour is a signal

Is your child talking, refusing, avoiding work or struggling to follow instructions at school?

Sometimes what looks like defiance or disrespect is actually a sign that a child is struggling — with the work, their regulation, or their need for movement.

This practical guide will help you look beyond the behaviour and work out what might be driving it — and what to try instead.

Inside you'll find:

• Strategies for when schoolwork feels too hard

• Simple ways children can ask for help before they become overwhelmed

• Teacher check-ins and support for getting started

• Easy classroom movement and heavy-work breaks

• Replacement phrases and signals to teach your child

• Questions to consider before moving straight to a consequence

Perfect for parents to download, use at home, or share with their child's teacher.

Because the goal isn't to excuse the behaviour. It's to understand the need, teach a better way to communicate it, and give the child the tools to succeed.