
I did this without a trust fund, without a company relocation package, and without knowing a single person where I landed.
I built income first, used that income to move, and handled the logistics as a project — with a checklist, a budget and a date. Not a leap of faith. A project.
What's inside (14 pages, 11 sections):
✦ Why it feels impossible — the five real reasons people stay, and what actually fixes each one
✦ The three legitimate paths out of employment, with realistic timelines for each
✦ The overlap strategy — building exit income while still employed, month by month
✦ The 70% exit trigger: leave when client income hits 70% of take-home for three consecutive months
✦ A destination framework with the Exit Number each place actually requires
✦ What leaving really costs — the one-off bill nobody budgets for, from flights and deposits to the 3× emergency buffer
✦ My real Miami monthly budget: $3,000 rent, $350 groceries, $100 transport, $100 healthcare, $80 tools, $300 social — $3,930 total. Unedited.
✦ The full 12-week pre-move checklist, plus arrival week
✦ Banking and transfers — and the hidden exchange-rate margin that costs most people £600–800
✦ UK tax residency done properly: the Statutory Residence Test, the P85, and the Dubai trap
✦ How to find housing before you land, in the right order
✦ The first 90 days abroad, honestly
This is for you if: You've decided to go but don't know what order to do it in. You keep being told to "just move" and need the actual logistics.