21 Days of Identity Recalibration, Boundary Resurrection & Radical Self-Possession

**This is where the Good Girl dies. And the Sovereign Woman rises.**

For years, you’ve been taught to soften, shrink, submit, tolerate, be grateful, be patient, be accommodating, be nice.

You were groomed for obedience, not power.

You were trained to perform, not live.

You were conditioned to betray yourself in a thousand tiny ways and call it maturity, kindness, or being “the bigger person.”

And you know it isn’t working anymore.

You feel the ache of your own abandonment.
You feel the exhaustion of carrying everyone else’s emotional labor.
You feel the quiet resentment of dimming your fire to keep the peace.
You feel the truth rising:
You can’t keep living like this.

This is the rupture.
This is your turning point.
This is the moment you choose you.

Welcome to the Selfish Bitch: Initiation—a 21-day initiation into the woman you were before conditioning, guilt, and patriarchy cut her down.

WHAT THIS IMMERSION IS

This is not a class.
This is not a course.
This is not “tips for self-care.”

This is a descent.
A stripping away.
A death rite.
A reclamation.
A resurrection.

For 21 days, you will be held inside a field of radical self-trust, radical responsibility, and radical sovereignty.

You will be initiated into a version of yourself who does not apologize for her power, her desires, her boundaries, or her truth.

This immersion is:

The identity recalibration

Where you stop thinking like a wounded girl and start operating as a sovereign woman.

The rupture container

Where you confront and break the patterns of self-abandonment, guilt, people-pleasing, over-giving, and male-centered obedience.

The sovereignty initiation

Where “selfishness” becomes a sacred discipline instead of a character flaw.

The first portal into my deeper lineage

Every woman who continues into my higher-level work begins here. This is the foundation.

WHO THIS IS FOR

Women who are done:

• tolerating relationships that drain them

• negotiating their boundaries

• mothering men

• shrinking their voice

• outsourcing their intuition

• being emotionally available to everyone but themselves

• playing the “cool girl,” the “good girl,” or the “easy to love” girl

• saying yes when their body is screaming no

• performing power instead of embodying it

Women who are ready:

• to choose themselves without guilt or apology

• to make decisions rooted in self-trust instead of fear

• to reclaim their energy from every person, system, or narrative siphoning it

• to step into the next level of their life, leadership, and womanhood

• to become unrecognizable to their past selves

If you’re feeling the heat in your body right now, you already know this is your portal.

THE EXPERIENCE

A 3-week immersion held live on Zoom.

WEEK ONE: THE GOOD GIRL EXORCISM

Call 1 (Teaching + Ritual):

• Dismantling internalized obedience

• Patriarchal conditioning & energetic indoctrination

• The Selfish Woman as the natural feminine template

• Why guilt is a lie you were taught to swallow

Call 2 (Q&A + Hot Seat Coaching):

• Boundaries without apology

• Releasing shame around desire

• Navigating guilt + emotional flashbacks

• Rewriting the mother-wound patterns in real time

WEEK TWO: RADICAL RESPONSIBILITY, RADICAL POWER

Call 1 (Teaching + Ritual):

• The anatomy of self-betrayal

• Conscious reparenting as time travel

• Healing strategic helplessness

• Energetic sovereignty and the leak map

Call 2 (Q&A + Hot Seat Coaching):

• Hot seat interventions

• Guidance on ending patterns & dynamics

• Nervous system leadership

• Reclaiming power where you’ve abandoned it

WEEK THREE: THE RISE OF THE SELFISH BITCH

Call 1 (Teaching + Ritual):

• Embodiment practices

• Pleasure as personal power

• Integrity as self-loyalty

• Rituals for locking in your new identity

Call 2 (Q&A + Hot Seat Coaching):

• Hot seat integration

• Action plans

• Identity grounding

• Your next steps in this work

Day 21 Finale Celebration Call

THE PROMISE

By the end of this immersion, you will:

• stop negotiating with your own intuition

• stop apologizing for your boundaries

• stop performing palatable femininity

• stop mothering grown adults

• stop leaking energy everywhere

• stop betraying yourself to be liked

• stop living your life on mute

You will walk into the world as the most honest, embodied, unapologetic version of yourself you have ever known.

This is the woman your younger self prayed you’d become.

YOUR GUIDE

I’m Andrea Bordeaux, a writer, actress, priestess of radical responsibility, and creator of Selfish Bitch.

My work is a fusion of ancient feminine wisdom, shadow alchemy, matriarchal remembrance, and embodied sovereignty.

I don’t teach from theory.
I teach from lived experience, from fire, from devotion, from truth.

I’m not here to coddle you.
I’m here to liberate you.

If you’re ready, I’ll take you deeper than you’ve ever gone.

PRICING EXCHANGE $777

You will receive free access to the Selfish Bitch Masterclass--$97 value. This is a great primer for the immersion.

BEGIN THE INITIATION

If your body is buzzing, contracting, expanding, or whispering “yes”…
trust that.

That sensation is your sovereignty trying to come home.

Join the Selfish Bitch Immersion.
Your new life begins the moment you say yes.