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Bethany Spencer

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Sorrow + Song

Sorrow + Song

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You still believe in God. You just don’t know what to say to Him right now.

Maybe you’re angry. Maybe you’re disappointed. Maybe prayer feels harder than it used to. Maybe worship feels different now. Maybe you’re tired of being reminded that God is good when what you really need is permission to tell Him:

This hurts.

You haven’t lost your faith. You may just need a more honest way to express it.

Sorrow + Song is a gentle, faith-rooted guide to biblical lament for the person who loves God AND is carrying more grief than they know what to do with.

What if God isn't asking you to hurry toward hope?

Grief can make faith complicated.

You can know God is good + still be disappointed by what He allowed. You can trust Him + still have questions. You can believe His promises + still struggle to pray.

You can have hope + still hurt deeply.

And the Bible makes room for all of it. Again and again, Scripture gives us prayers that sound less like polished faith and more like:

Where are You?

How long will this hurt?

I don't understand.

Help me.

These prayers have a name: Lament.

You don't have to clean up your grief before bringing it to God.

Sorrow + Song will help you understand biblical lament + begin practicing it in the middle of your own loss. The goal isn't to hurry through your grief or find the lesson. And it's definitely not to tie everything up with a pretty spiritual bow.

Instead, Sorrow + Song can help you discover that God is willing to meet you in the places you thought you had to hide from Him. Your anger. Your questions. Your disappointment. Your exhaustion. Your sorrow.

There is room for all of it here.

Inside Sorrow + Song, you'll learn:

  • what biblical lament actually is + why it matters

  • how to bring your real emotions to God without feeling like you're doing faith wrong

  • what to do when prayer feels impossible

  • how sorrow + trust can exist at the same time

  • how to write your own honest lament when you don't have the words

  • how to stop rushing yourself toward hope + meet God right where you actually are

This isn't about learning to grieve “better.”

It's about realizing you don't have to perform for God while you're hurting.

Maybe you've been wondering...

Is it okay to be angry with God?

What do I pray when I don't have anything nice to say?

Can I trust God + still be disappointed?

Why does worship feel so different now?

Does struggling with God mean I'm struggling with my faith?

If you've asked any of those questions, Sorrow + Song was made for this part of your story.

I created this because I've needed it, too.

I know what it's like to love God deeply + still have questions you never wanted to ask. Lament gave me language for a kind of faith I didn't know I was allowed to have.

A faith that could say:

I trust You.

and

I hate this.

At the same time.

Lament showed me I didn't have to choose between being honest about my grief + holding onto God. I could bring Him both.

And Sorrow + Song will help you find the words to meet Him there.

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