Built for Love: Our Wedding Story

Nobody handed us a roadmap.

Gay men have been planning weddings for twenty years and somehow the books still read like they were written for someone else. The venues, the vendors, the vows — all of it filtered through a lens that was never quite ours.

This book is.

Built for Love is a wedding planning guide written specifically for gay men — not as an afterthought, but as the whole point. It walks you through every decision you'll face, from the first conversation about what kind of wedding you actually want to the moment you walk back down the aisle as husbands.

But it's not just a planning guide. It's a book about what it means to choose someone. To build something together. To show up — for your partner, your guests, and yourself — and mean it.

Inside: budgeting, vendors, logistics, ceremony design, family dynamics, and the harder questions nobody else is asking.

Written by a gay man who planned a wedding, made all the mistakes, and wants you to have the version he wishes he'd had.