1:1 With Jake and Carissa
$275
When conversations turn into accusations, defensiveness, or another argument, it’s hard to know whether to explain, hold a boundary, or step back.
In a private call with Carissa and Jake, bring your questions and real situations. We’ll help you understand the patterns unfolding and practice ways to:
Respond to anger without getting pulled into the fight.
Navigate mental illness and/or addiction with pathologizing
Set clear boundaries and follow through.
Say what needs to be said without attacking or overexplaining.
Recognize what you can influence and what’s outside your control.
Whether you’re together, separating, or co-parenting, you’ll leave with practical next steps you can use in your next conversation.
Anyomous Celebrity
I've been a famous actress in Hollywood for 20 years and not ready to share my identity but I did want to express my internal gratitude for Carissa and her 1:1 coaching. I got more from ONE session with her than 10 years of therapy, honestly. MIND BLOWING. Plethora of wisdom, intuitive gifts and unconditional love for all souls. Invest with her. She's worth it. THANK YOU CARISSA 🌹
Sarah and Tig
not even kidding I thought we were way too toxic to ever have a normal relationship 😭 like every little thing turned into a fight and I was always trying to get him to step up but the way I was doing it was literally making him pull away more. 1:1 with Carissa showed me how much I was fighting him instead of letting him lead. once I changed that HE started changing too. now he actually steps in, handles things and makes me feel protected without me having to beg for it. we still argue lol but it’s sooo different now. I actually feel like I can relax with him for once
Bobby P
Girl 😭 I have to tell you this because WHO are we lately lol. One session with you changed our lives. We used to fight over literally everything and I was constantly pissed that he wouldn’t step up... meanwhile every time he tried I had something to say about how he did it 😂 Now I actually let him handle shit and he DOES. Like he’s so much more protective of me now and I didn’t even realize how badly I wanted that. I’m not on his ass all the time, he’s not shutting down... idk girl. It’s just different. I actually like us again 😂 THANK YOU!
Dee and David
ONE sessions with Carissa blew our minds!! And I realized I really don’t give my husband a chance to lead 😭 I’ll ask him to handle something and then question every little thing he does. Then split and be cray for days. And the shame woud KILL mee. Since Obsessed Love I’ve been trying to back off and let him do it and I can already tell a difference. Even yesterday something happened with my car and normally I would’ve taken over but I just let him handle it. He was like “I got you” and took care of the whole thing. It sounds so small but I felt SO taken care of. We still have a lot to work on lol but I’m starting to see how much I was asking him to lead while also making it impossible for him to.
Wendy and Sean Mortn
We were literally having the same fight over and over just with different details 😂 I felt like he didn’t care and he felt like nothing he did was ever good enough for me. After two sssions with you we finally realized we were both making it worse in completely different ways. I’m getting better at telling him what I need without attacking him and he’s gotten WAY better at stepping in instead of shutting down. We actually had a fight this weekend and somehow it was over in like 20 minutes?? No breakup threats, nobody left, and we went to dinner after 😂 That would’ve NEVER happened a few months ago.