
You know what your partner means to you. Finding the words to say it can feel harder.
The Ultimate Vow Writing Workshop gives you a clear, thoughtful way to turn your memories, shared values and promises into wedding vows that sound like you.
Created by Neal A. McFarlane of DJ XTC Entertainment, this self-paced workshop takes you from a blank page to a final draft you can practise and share with confidence.
Inside the workshop
• 15 guided lessons covering reflection, writing, refining and delivery.
• Online writing spaces to explore your story, your partner, your relationship, your future and your promises.
• Four coordinated, fillable PDF resources: the Vow Writing Workbook, Portrait Reflection Workbook, Final Vow Draft Template and Vow Delivery Cheat Sheet.
• Optional support from The Vow Helper, a dedicated AI writing assistant that opens separately in ChatGPT.
A simple path to your own words
Remember the moments that matter. Reflect on the person you love. Choose promises you mean. Shape your draft, read it aloud and prepare for the ceremony.
There is no single right way to sound in love. Your vows can be tender, playful, understated or a little of everything. The guidance welcomes couples of all genders, cultures and backgrounds.
Work at your own pace
Follow the lessons in order or return to the part you need. Use the online writing tools, fill the PDFs digitally in a compatible PDF reader, or print them and write by hand.
About the Vow Helper
The Vow Helper is optional and requires a ChatGPT account. Your writing is not sent to it automatically; you choose what to copy and share. ChatGPT's applicable usage limits apply. You can complete the workshop without using AI.
This is a self-guided digital workshop. Live coaching, personal vow reviews and done-for-you vow writing are not included.
Start with what is true. We will help you give it words.
FAQs
Is this a live workshop?
No. It is self-paced, so you can work through it when it suits you.
Do I need to be a confident writer?
No. The prompts help you begin with specific memories and honest promises, then shape them into a draft.
Do I have to use AI?
No. The lessons, writing tools and PDFs can be used independently. The optional Vow Helper opens in ChatGPT.
Can we both use the workshop?
You can each follow the exercises to develop your own vows. Keep your drafts separate if you want the ceremony to be the first time you hear each other's words.
Are the PDFs printable?
Yes. They also contain fillable fields for use in a compatible PDF reader.
Is personal feedback included?
No. This purchase covers the self-guided workshop and its resources.