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Mom of 2 teen sons helping boymoms raise strong boys in today’s culture

The Reach Him Plan™

The Reach Him Plan™

$297

MOM, YOU'VE TRIED THE PARENTING ADVICE. YOUR SON IS STILL PUSHING BACK.

THERE'S SOMETHING I WANT TO LOOK AT BEFORE YOU TRY AGAIN. ↓

Stay calm. Set boundaries. Give him space. Take his phone.

You've tried it.

And somehow, you're having the same argument again.

Your son talks back. You correct him. Now he's angry.

Or you try to talk calmly, and he shuts his bedroom door.

You're lying in bed that night wondering what you should have said differently.

Mom, what if the problem isn't that you haven't tried enough?

What if we need to look more closely at what's happening between you and YOUR son?

Because telling you to stay calm doesn't tell you what to do when he looks you in the face and says NO.

Or when you give him space, and he still won't talk.

Or when you take his phone, and now you're fighting about that too.

That's what I want to help you figure out.

GIRL, I'VE BEEN THERE. 😢

I used to talk my sons' ears off.

I'd explain something.

Then explain it again.

Then explain the same thing one more time because I thought they weren't listening.

Later, I'd realize:

"Chika, he heard you the first time." 😢

Sometimes I needed to stop talking.

Sometimes I needed to listen longer.

And sometimes my son was wrong, and the answer was still NO.

I wanted rules. I wanted respect.

But I also wanted my sons to feel safe coming to me when something went wrong.

I wanted us to have a bad Tuesday night and still be able to talk Wednesday morning.

And I had to learn how to do that.

REACH HIM™

A PERSONAL PLAN FOR YOUR SON. 30 DAYS OF HELP USING IT.

Mom, I don't want to hand you another list of things to say and hope one works.

I want to hear what's happening with YOUR son.

What happens right before he shuts down?

What do you say when he talks back?

What happens when you set a boundary?

What have you already tried?

And what happens when it doesn't work?

I'll look at those things before I make your plan.

Then we'll talk through how to use it.

And when you try something and your son doesn't respond the way we expected?

You can come back to me, and we'll look at what happened.

Because knowing what to say is one thing. Knowing what to do when it doesn't work is another.

That's why REACH HIM™ includes 30 days of personal support.

FOR $297, YOU GET:

  • A personal Reach Him Plan™ made for your situation with your son

  • A 30-minute private call with me

  • 30 days of personal support through Skool, with replies up to twice a week on agreed days

  • One month inside Emotional Moms Academy™

I take only 5 families each month because I do this work myself.

BUILD MY SON'S PLAN 🤍

You'll complete an intake after joining. If I review it and determine REACH HIM™ isn't the right fit, I'll refund you in full before starting your plan.

MOM, HERE'S WHY I WOULDN'T KEEP PUTTING THIS OFF.

Think about the last argument you had with your son.

Maybe it was his phone.

Maybe he spoke to you disrespectfully.

Maybe you asked him a simple question, and he got upset.

You tried to handle it differently.

But it still ended badly.

Now think about the next time it happens.

What are you going to do differently?

If you already know, that's good.

But if you're still trying to figure it out, I want you to tell me what's happening.

Because another parenting tip won't tell us why the last one didn't work in your house.

And I don't want you spending another month trying the same things without knowing what needs to change.

You can keep trying to figure it out alone. Or we can look at what's actually happening and make a plan for it.

LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT ONE MOM.

She was having a hard time with her strong-willed son.

They argued a lot.

She wanted him to listen and respect her, but the same problems kept coming back.

So I started asking questions.

What usually happened first?

What did she say?

What did he do?

What happened when he pushed back?

As we talked, she started noticing things.

Sometimes she'd ask the same question again.

Then she'd explain more.

Sometimes she'd get scared, and the conversation would turn into yelling.

She also realized she'd been comparing him to his brother.

We talked about what she could do differently.

She started listening longer.

She stopped repeating the same question.

She stopped comparing her sons.

And she still expected respect.

Her son didn't suddenly agree with everything she said.

But later, she told me he was listening more.

He started coming to her more.

Then they went out together, just the two of them.

And he opened up to her.

Girl, she was so happy.

After all those arguments, she was telling me about spending time with her son and having a good talk.

I can't promise every mom will have the same result.

But this is why I take the time to understand what's happening before suggesting what to try.

WHAT IF YOUR SON'S PROBLEM IS DIFFERENT?

Maybe he talks back, and every correction becomes an argument.

Maybe he used to tell you everything, and now you barely know what's going on.

Maybe you're worried about his friends.

Maybe he keeps breaking the same rule.

Or maybe something has changed, and you can't figure out what it is.

I don't want to give every mom the same advice.

Sometimes we need to change how you start a conversation.

Sometimes you need to stop repeating yourself.

Sometimes you need to listen longer.

And sometimes the rule needs to stay exactly where it is.

That's why I want to hear what's happening in YOUR house.

HERE'S HOW REACH HIM™ WORKS.

💛 1. TELL ME ABOUT YOUR SON.

After joining, you'll receive your private intake form.

Tell me what's happening, what you've tried, and what you'd like to change.

You don't have to make it sound nice.

I'll review your intake within 2 business days.

If I determine REACH HIM™ isn't the right fit, I'll let you know and refund your payment in full.

💛 2. I'LL MAKE YOUR PLAN.

Once I've reviewed your intake and confirmed we're moving forward, I'll start working on your personal Reach Him Plan™.

You'll receive your plan as a PDF within 72 hours of intake approval.

I'll show you what I think you should work on first, what can wait, and what to try differently.

💛 3. WE'LL TALK THROUGH YOUR PLAN.

We'll have a 30-minute private call.

I'll walk you through the plan and answer your questions.

I want you to understand what we're working on and why.

Your 30 days of support start on the day of our call.

AND THEN REAL LIFE HAPPENS. 😂

It's Thursday night.

Something happens with your son.

You try what we talked about.

And he does NOT respond the way you expected.

Now you're thinking:

"Chika... this is not how we planned it. 😩"

Okay, Mama.

Tell me what happened.

What did you say?

What did he say?

What happened next?

We'll look at it together.

Maybe we need to change how you said something.

Maybe he needs more time.

Maybe the boundary needs to stay right where it is.

One bad conversation doesn't mean you have to start all over again.

That's why I'm helping you for 30 days.

You can send me text or voice messages through Skool.

We'll agree on the days I review your messages and respond, up to twice a week.

This is scheduled personal support, not live or emergency messaging.

You don't just get a plan. You get help when you try it and things don't go as expected.

YOU ALSO GET ONE MONTH INSIDE EMOTIONAL MOMS ACADEMY™.

At no extra cost.

You'll get:

  • Weekly live group coaching

  • Replays if you miss a session

  • End the Shutdown™ and 48 Emergency Scripts

  • Our private mom community

This gives you group coaching alongside your personal plan.

WHAT I WANT TO CHANGE FOR YOU IN 30 DAYS.

I want you to understand more about what's happening between you and your son.

To notice when something you're doing is helping.

And when you need to try something different.

I want you to know when to listen.

When to give him space.

And when to stand by what you said.

I want you to have a hard day with your son without spending the whole night wondering what you did wrong.

I want you to feel more sure about how you're handling things.

Not because your son will suddenly agree with everything.

But because you'll have a better idea of what to do.

I can't promise your son will change in 30 days.

But I can help you look at what's happening, make a plan, and work through it with you.

A FEW THINGS YOU MAY BE WONDERING.

WHAT IF I'VE ALREADY TRIED EVERYTHING?

Then tell me what you've tried.

Sometimes advice doesn't work because it doesn't fit what's happening with your son.

That's why I want to understand your situation before suggesting what to do.

WHAT IF MY SON DOESN'T WANT HELP?

He doesn't have to join our calls.

I'm working with you.

We'll look at how you respond, how you set rules, and what happens when you try something different.

WHAT'S THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN REACH HIM™ AND THE ACADEMY?

The Academy is group coaching. You bring questions to our weekly calls, learn alongside other moms, and use the lessons and resources.

REACH HIM™ is personal help.

I review your situation, make a plan for your son, meet with you privately, and help you use the plan for 30 days.

You don't have to buy both. One month of Academy is already included with REACH HIM™.

WHY ONLY FIVE FAMILIES?

Because I do the work myself.

I read your intake.

I make your plan.

I meet with you.

And I help you for 30 days.

I take five families each month so I have time to work with each mom.

When I'm full, I wait until I have room before taking another family.

WHAT IF REACH HIM™ ISN'T RIGHT FOR MY FAMILY?

I review every intake before I start the plan.

If I determine REACH HIM™ isn't the right fit, including when a situation needs support from a licensed professional, I'll tell you and refund your payment in full.

Once I begin building your plan, your payment is non-refundable.

WHAT IF I'M WORRIED ABOUT MY SON'S SAFETY?

REACH HIM™ is not crisis support.

If your son may hurt himself or someone else, or you're worried about immediate danger, please seek urgent help.

In the U.S., call 911 for an emergency or call or text 988 for a suicide or mental-health crisis. Outside the U.S., contact your local emergency or crisis service.

MOM, THE NEXT TIME HE PUSHES BACK, WHAT WILL YOU DO DIFFERENTLY?

You've tried talking.

You've tried being patient.

You've tried being firm.

And you're still having some of the same problems.

You don't have to figure out what to try next before asking for help.

Tell me what's happening with your son.

I'll look at what you've tried, make a plan for your situation, and help you work through it.

REACH HIM™ — $297

YOU GET:

  • Your personal Reach Him Plan™

  • A 30-minute private call with me

  • 30 days of scheduled personal support

  • One month inside Emotional Moms Academy™

Only 5 families each month.

BUILD MY SON'S PLAN 🤍

Complete your intake after joining. I'll review it within 2 business days. If REACH HIM™ isn't the right fit, I'll refund you in full before starting your plan.

Let's look at what's happening with YOUR son.

REACH HIM™ provides parenting education and coaching. It is not therapy, counseling, or emergency support.

MOM, LET'S FIGURE OUT YOUR SON.

I understand The Reach Him Plan™ is personalized parent coaching based on the information you provide. It offers education and guidance informed by lived experience and parenting research. It is not therapy, counseling, medical care, or a substitute for a licensed mental health professional. If your son is in crisis or you are concerned about his immediate safety, please contact the appropriate emergency services or a qualified healthcare provider.
Every teen and family is different, and results will vary. I personally review every application. If I do not believe I'm the right person to help your family, I'll tell you honestly and issue a full refund.
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