The Initiation: Ruthless & Regulated 1-1 Coaching
16 weeks to stop being the strong one who's falling apart on the inside & become ruthlessly regulated instead.
You're successful. You show up. You hold it together. Your boss respects you. Your friends depend on you. Everyone thinks you have it figured out.
But behind closed doors you're spiralling after a text, replaying conversations at 3am, abandoning yourself the moment someone pulls away. You're the one who fixes everything - except your own standards & nervous system.
You're high performing on the outside. Anxiously attached on the inside - AND you're exhausted.
This isn't a healing journey where we sit with your feelings for 16 weeks.
This is an Initiation into ruthless standards.
You already know your patterns, you've read the books, done therapy, danced naked under the moon. You can name every childhood wound, every sabotaging thought, every way you try to earn love.
You have seen progress but your newfound awareness alone isn't enough.
It doesn't rewire what happens in your body when someone doesn't text back. It doesn't rebuild the self trust you've destroyed or stop the voice that says 'you're too much'. It doesn't stop you from bending over backwards to earn back their attention once they pull away.
That's what we do here.
How Initiation Works
I work across three layers simultaneously: your nervous system, your identity & your energy. We go straight to the root of what's been running the show:
The part of you that learned: love isn't safe, your needs are a burden, you have to earn your place by wearing a mask & begging for a morsel of attention.
The old version of you is still running your life, that's why:
Every time someone goes quiet, anxiety activates. Every time you're worried you've done something wrong, dread takes over. Every time you apologise for being you, you're stuck. She's the reason you turn yourself inside out for people who barely show up for you.
Then we change it.
I will teach you how to shed this old version of you - the one that keeps you stuck & stagnant. We do this in real time. With your ex who still has a hold on you, the friend who drains you & your mother's critical voice in your head.
By week 16, you won't be the woman who runs away from herself anymore. You'll be the woman who knows exactly what she needs, isn't afraid to ask for it & wouldn't dare settle for less. You'll be ruthlessly regulated in your standards & completely unwilling to compromise.
You won't look back.
What's Included
✦ 12 x 1:1 video calls (60 minutes each. Weekly for the first 8 weeks, then fortnightly for the final 8)
✦ Voice note access Monday-Friday - Support in real time, not just on calls.
✦ 2 x Energy Healing's - to shift what the mind alone can't access
✦ 1 x Evidential Mediumship Session - your guides reveal what's been blocking you & what's trying to happen in your life
✦ Full support & accountability across the 16 weeks
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Investment
✦ Pay in full: $4,000 AUD (best value - save $500)
✦ 3 x monthly payments: $1,500/month ($4,500 total)
✦ 4 x monthly payments: $1,125/month ($4,500 total)
Payment plans are available - but if you're in a position to pay in full, it's the most committed way to start and saves you $500.
This is for you if:
You're intelligent enough to know therapy alone isn't fixing this. You're successful enough to afford real change. You're self aware enough to know the problem is you.
You're tired of being the strong one while falling apart internally. You're not looking for validation, you want someone who sees what you're doing & refuses to let you hide.
You're willing to be uncomfortable. Willing to look at how you've been complicit in your own abandonment. Willing to hear hard truths & act on them.
You know "someday" isn't coming. You're done waiting. You're ready to move now, even though you're fearful.
You understand this is an investment, not a transaction. You're committed to showing up between sessions.
You're willing to become ruthlessly regulated in your standards. Unshakeable & unwilling to compromise on your own worth.
This isn't for you if:
You're hoping this will fix your relationship for you. You want someone to validate why you abandon yourself. You're not ready to let go of the old version of you yet.
You want a quick fix or a band-aid. You want me to do the work while you stay the same. You're waiting for the "right time" to start.
How This Actually Works
Applications are open now. This isn't a transactional coaching program, it's an Initiation. I need to make sure we're a fit.
Fill out the application here & I'll be in touch within 24 hours. We'll have a brief conversation about where you are, what you need & whether Initiation is the right container for you.
If it is? We start immediately.
Ready?
If you've read this & something in you feels ignited, trust that. That's your nervous system telling you it's time.
Amber
Energy by Amber
