


girl, i made you something
and i'm actually obsessed with it
because i spent YEARS wanting a completely different life while simultaneously giving myself approximately 97 reasons why none of it was going to happen for me lol
i wanted more money
more freedom
work that felt like mine
insane love
a life i was genuinely excited to wake up inside
and then five minutes later my brain would be like
okay cute
but HOW?
what if nobody cares?
what if it doesn't work?
what if that's for other people?
what if you're embarrassing yourself?
and eventually i had to be like
which life are we actually practicing here?
because you cannot keep asking for a new life while emotionally rehearsing the old one
and the biggest thing that changed for me wasn't some enormous breakthrough
i started practicing something different
tiny rep after tiny rep
catching the old thought
choosing another possibility
doing one little thing differently
letting something good actually feel good
and slowly, the way i experienced my life started changing
not because everything i wanted magically showed up overnight
because i stopped making everything that hadn't happened yet a reason not to enjoy being here
and i wanted to make the most fun, beautiful little place for us to practice this together.
so i made return to her <3
here's what we're doing for 21 days π


every day you come in here for a few minutes
you get a little something from me
a thought
a tiny experiment
something to actually DO
something that might catch you later that afternoon when your brain starts doing its usual thing and make you go
ohhhhh
there i go again lol
and you get to choose differently
not perfectly
not every single time
just more often than you did before
read the thing. try the thing. notice what happens. go live your life.
that's literally it.
your little world inside <3
21 daily notes + experiments from me
the kind that make you stop for a second and see something about your life differently
every day also has a 60-second version for when life is life-ing
one tiny, occasionally weird thing to actually do in your real life
because knowing something and LIVING IT are two completely different things
and we're practicing the living-it part
ONE OF MY FAVORITE PARTS
this is where you start collecting all the little things you might've missed before
something good happened
you did something differently
you stopped checking whether everything was working out and actually enjoyed yourself
the unexpected invitation
the money that came in
the thing you finally sent
the five minutes where being alive felt really fucking good
not a habit tracker
not another list of things to accomplish
actual little pieces of evidence that your life is happening




because sometimes you're not in the mood for today's beautiful life lesson lol
you're anxious
you're pissed
you're jealous
you're completely blah
or you're feeling amazing and want to stay there
starting on day 6, you unlock a little place you can come back to anytime
pick what you're feeling and get:
one thought to borrow
one little body rep
one tiny thing to try next
and if the first one doesn't hit?
give me another one
because we're not forcing ourselves from feeling like shit to being ecstatic in 30 seconds
we're finding the next thought that feels available.

sometimes you don't need to understand something better
you want to actually FEEL it
so i've been filling this place with guided breathwork, visualizations + voice notes you can come back to
put your headphones in
spend a few minutes with yourself
visit the life you'd fucking love
let yourself feel a little of it now

a whole collection of playful, occasionally very personal reminders
pull one when you want a different thought, a little perspective, or a tiny nudge toward the life you're creating
some of them are sweet
some of them are a little unhinged
all very much made with love
and please hear me on this part
you can want the whole fucking life AND adore the one you're living.
you can love God + want money
you can be single + feel deeply desirable
you can be happy + wildly ambitious
you can have no fucking clue what you're doing + still have the time of your life
you can appreciate everything you've already created + be wildly excited about what's coming next
wanting more was never the problem.
using everything you want as proof that something is missing is where things start getting exhausting
and i don't want us doing that anymore
i want us rich
in love
free
hot
deeply connected
creating things we actually care about
laughing until we can't breathe
having the best friendships
booking the flight
making the money
and having really, really good random tuesdays
this is our real life
and we still get to want more
the girls are already doing the thing <3





one of my favorite things about creating this has been hearing what the girls inside are actually experiencing
a girl noticing a moment she normally would've rushed past
another telling me the breathwork feels like somebody is sitting next to her reminding her she's not alone
another realizing how much power she already has
i made this because of what changed in me
and now i get to watch other girls discover things about their own lives
i'm sorry but it actually makes me emotional ππ
oh and one more thing
this is not another project
no streaks
no gold stars
no being behind
no catching up because you missed a day
no turning yourself into one more thing you need to improve
if you miss a day, come back whenever you want
the experience is here for you
not the other way around
and you don't have to stop wanting anything to start feeling good
we are simply practicing something different
again and again and again
so. are you in? π
if you're the girl who feels everything
wants the whole fucking life
and is starting to realize she doesn't want to spend another year waiting for everything to change before she lets herself enjoy being here
i made this for you.
21 days of little experiments, dares, breathwork, visualizations, cards, voice notes, and collecting the good.
3β5 minutes for the daily experiment, with optional extras whenever you want them.
$27. one payment. starts the day you say yes.
and you can keep coming back to the experience after day 21