Identity Builder Lab 💛 1:1 or Group Coaching

$222

/Week

It's a brand new learning space where we blend science, magic and real life together in a 3 month program based on

Language of Identity Development (LOID) and my flagship course Language Matters!

Over 12 weeks, you will learn to recognize the messages your child may be absorbing, regulate yourself before responding, and use language that supports flexible identity, confidence, connection, and resilience.

If ….

your child is struggling to communicate their wants and need clearly

your child has a speech delay or slow progress with speech

you feel like you are always “reacting” to your child's behavior

you have a child under that age of 8 and you want them to develop a healthy identity

you want your child to strive for success while not breaking from feeling too much pressure

you want to learn about Intentional Language and how it can help you with all of the things listed above…

There is something for you in this learning space!

💛 Inside the Identity Builder Lab, we take research backed concepts and strategies from theory → real life.

Instead of:
“Be careful!”
“You’re okay, stop crying.”
“You are smart”

You will learn intentional language swaps

Instead of jumping in to fix everything…
You’ll learn how to pause, stay calm, and let your child build self-trust

🧠 The science you’ll learn (in a way that actually makes sense):

Research shows:

Co-regulated children develop stronger self-regulation skills
Emotion coaching leads to:
❤️ fewer behavior challenges
❤️ higher emotional intelligence
❤️ better stress recovery

And one powerful truth:

👉 Caregiver calm + emotional attunement = neurological safety

🎥 Through the Language Matters course inside the Lab, you’ll learn how to:

Get face-to-face and truly connect
Follow your child’s lead (instead of directing every moment)
Turn questions into comments that build language
Model clear, meaningful communication
Create back-and-forth interactions that build confidence
Let your child struggle safely without rushing in to rescue

Because in those moments?

👉 You’re not just helping behavior
👉 You’re building resilience, communication, and identity

🎤 And then we take it one step further…

Every week, you get live coaching with me.

Bring your real-life moments like:

“My child says ‘I can’t’ before even trying”
“They melt down and I don’t know how to respond”
“I feel like I’m either over-helping or shutting down”
“They aren't saying words although they should be”

And we walk through:
✔️ what’s actually happening underneath
✔️ what your child needs in that moment
✔️ what to say instead (in your real voice)

💬 Plus—supportive, doable home practice

Not overwhelming. Not complicated.

Just simple shifts like:

Sitting face-to-face for 5 minutes of play
Following their lead without correcting
Waiting (yes… waiting 😅) to give them space to respond
Turning everyday moments into identity-building opportunities

Because here’s the truth:

👉 It’s not just what children do that shapes who they become…
👉 It’s how we respond to what they do

✨ Over time, this is what you’ll start to see:

Your child:

Tries again instead of shutting down
Uses more language to express themselves
Handles frustration with more resilience
Feels safe, seen, and confident

Because they’ve internalized:

“I can try again.”
“I know what I’m working on.”
“Someone believes in me.”

This is why I want you with me inside the Identity Builder Lab for 3 whole Months!

And you?

You’ll feel calmer.
More confident.
More intentional.

Not because you memorized scripts…

But because you understand how your words are shaping who your child is becoming.

💛 Join us inside the Identity Builder Lab

When you join you will get access to the private facebook group!

~Access the Pre-work before the program

~Mondays- guided course for that week will be available to watch

~Wednesdays- live sessions with me to discuss concepts, ask questions and get coaching

~Watch replays anytime in the “media" section

PLUS~Guest Experts (TBD)

The calendar of weekly topics is posted in the group and Pre-work is available for download right now!

Identity Builder Lab 💛 1:1 or Group Coaching

$222

/Week

It's a brand new learning space where we blend science, magic and real life together in a 3 month program based on

Language of Identity Development (LOID) and my flagship course Language Matters!

If ….

your child is struggling to communicate their wants and need clearly

your child has a speech delay or slow progress with speech

you feel like you are always “reacting” to your child's behavior

you have a child under that age of 8 and you want them to develop a healthy identity

you want your child to strive for success while not breaking from feeling too much pressure

you want to learn about Intentional Language and how it can help you with all of the things listed above…

There is something for you in this learning space!

💛 Inside the Identity Builder Lab, we take research backed concepts and strategies from theory → real life.

Instead of:
“Be careful!”
“You’re okay, stop crying.”
“You are smart”

You will learn intentional language swaps

Instead of jumping in to fix everything…
You’ll learn how to pause, stay calm, and let your child build self-trust

🧠 The science you’ll learn (in a way that actually makes sense):

Research shows:

Co-regulated children develop stronger self-regulation skills
Emotion coaching leads to:
❤️ fewer behavior challenges
❤️ higher emotional intelligence
❤️ better stress recovery

And one powerful truth:

👉 Caregiver calm + emotional attunement = neurological safety

🎥 Through the Language Matters course inside the Lab, you’ll learn how to:

Get face-to-face and truly connect
Follow your child’s lead (instead of directing every moment)
Turn questions into comments that build language
Model clear, meaningful communication
Create back-and-forth interactions that build confidence
Let your child struggle safely without rushing in to rescue

Because in those moments?

👉 You’re not just helping behavior
👉 You’re building resilience, communication, and identity

🎤 And then we take it one step further…

Every week, you get live coaching with me.

Bring your real-life moments like:

“My child says ‘I can’t’ before even trying”
“They melt down and I don’t know how to respond”
“I feel like I’m either over-helping or shutting down”
“They aren't saying words although they should be”

And we walk through:
✔️ what’s actually happening underneath
✔️ what your child needs in that moment
✔️ what to say instead (in your real voice)

💬 Plus—supportive, doable home practice

Not overwhelming. Not complicated.

Just simple shifts like:

Sitting face-to-face for 5 minutes of play
Following their lead without correcting
Waiting (yes… waiting 😅) to give them space to respond
Turning everyday moments into identity-building opportunities

Because here’s the truth:

👉 It’s not just what children do that shapes who they become…
👉 It’s how we respond to what they do

✨ Over time, this is what you’ll start to see:

Your child:

Tries again instead of shutting down
Uses more language to express themselves
Handles frustration with more resilience
Feels safe, seen, and confident

Because they’ve internalized:

“I can try again.”
“I know what I’m working on.”
“Someone believes in me.”

This is why I want you with me inside the Identity Builder Lab for 3 whole Months!

And you?

You’ll feel calmer.
More confident.
More intentional.

Not because you memorized scripts…

But because you understand how your words are shaping who your child is becoming.

💛 Join us inside the Identity Builder Lab

When you join you will get access to the private facebook group!

~Access the Pre-work before the program

~Mondays- guided course for that week will be available to watch

~Wednesdays- live sessions with me to discuss concepts, ask questions and get coaching

~Watch replays anytime in the “media" section

PLUS~Guest Experts (TBD)

The calendar of weekly topics is posted in the group and Pre-work is available for download right now!