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@rukiyaross

helping you think through life's biggest decisions

Second Opinion

Second Opinion

$99

You don't need another opinion.

You need someone to help you think it through.

You've probably already:

✓ talked to your partner

✓ texted your best friend

✓ searched Reddit

✓ opened twelve browser tabs

✓ run the numbers

✓ changed your mind three times

If you're still stuck...

tell me everything.

I'll look at the situation like I would if we were sitting across the kitchen table together.

Within 3 business days I'll send you a private 10–15 minute walkthrough of your situation:

• what I'd do if I were in your shoes

• the tradeoffs I see

• the questions I'd ask before deciding

• what I think you're overlooking

• practical next steps

$99

Things people have brought me lately

  • Should we have another baby?

  • Is the higher-paying job actually worth it?

  • Should we move closer to family?

  • Nanny or daycare?

  • Is it time to leave my company?

  • Do we buy the bigger house?

  • Am I overreacting?

  • Should I go part-time?

  • Should I take maternity leave differently?

  • Are we making this decision from fear?

This is probably for you if...

you've done the research...

but somehow feel more confused than when you started.

you're tired of carrying the decision around in your head.

you keep asking different people hoping someone will finally tell you what to do.

you know there isn't a perfect answer...

but you'd love a clearer one.

you don't need another spreadsheet.

you need perspective.

What this IS

✔ thoughtful

✔ practical

✔ nuanced

✔ judgment-free

✔ rooted in real life

✔ tailored to your situation

What this ISN'T

✘ therapy

✘ financial advice

✘ "follow your dreams"

✘ a magic answer

✘ a stranger telling you how to live

Instead...

it's another brain in the room.

Why me?

For my day job, I untangle complicated operational problems.

For my friends, I untangle life decisions.

I've spent years helping people think through tradeoffs—at work and at home.

I'm not going to pretend there's always one right answer.

But I'm very good at spotting the questions people haven't asked yet.

That's what you're paying for.

Get My Second Opinion!

What's the situation you're trying to decide on?
What have you already tried or considered?
What would make you feel confident in this decision?
Anything else I should know?
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