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ASK your Spotter

ASK your Spotter

$29.99

Ask Your Spotter

One question. A thoughtful response. Your next good step.

Sometimes you're not ready for a full coaching conversation. You may simply have a question, need another perspective, or want help identifying your next good step.

Ask Your Spotter gives you an opportunity to submit one question and receive a thoughtful, personalized written response from Jay Watkins, creator of Strong Men Ask for Help.

Your response may include practical guidance, a reflection exercise, or a helpful educational resource related to your question.

What you'll receive:

  • A personal written or video response to one question.

  • Practical suggestions to consider.

  • A helpful resource when appropriate.

  • Delivery by email within two business days.

Price: $29.99

You don't have to figure everything out alone. Sometimes one question is a good place to begin.

This is an educational guidance service, not therapy, clinical counseling, or emergency support.

Important: In order to complete a successful submission you must provide sufficient information/background to describe your issue and post your question.

This is for you if you’re looking to:

  • Have your unique request reviewed

  • Looking for direction that is specific to you

  • Need guidance but not ready for a 1:1 session

This product is not ideal for immediate emergencies or situations where you're in peril. Call 988 or 911 if you need immediate assistance.

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Terms & Conditions

Terms and Conditions

PLEASE READ THESE TERMS OF USE CAREFULLY BEFORE USING THIS WEBSITE OR PURCHASING

By using the website, you signify your consent to these terms of use. If you do not agree to these Terms of Use, please do not use the website.

Your access to and use of this website, as well as all related websites operated by Strong Men Ask for Help (which includes https://smafh.com/, and https://stan.store/smafh among others) (collectively the "Site") is subject to the following terms and conditions ("Terms of Use") and all applicable laws. By accessing and browsing the Site, you accept, without limitation or qualification, the Terms of Use and acknowledge that any other agreements between you and the Site are superseded and of no force or effect:

  1. You agree that the Site itself, as well as all content, videos, training materials, products, services and/or other materials, made available on the Site by us or other third parties, as well as the look and feel of all of the foregoing, (collectively referred to as the "Content") are maintained for your personal use and information by Strong Men Ask for Help (the "Company") and are the property of the Company and/or its third party providers. You agree that such Company Content shall include all proprietary videos, HTML/CSS, Javascript, graphics, voice, and sound recordings, artwork, photos, documents, and text as well as all other materials included in the Site, excluding only the materials you provide. Subject to your compliance with these Terms of Use, the Company hereby grants you a limited license, which is non-exclusive, non-transferable, and non-sublicensable, to access, view, and use the Site solely for your personal purposes. No Company Content may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, distributed, used for public or commercial purposes, or downloaded in any way unless written permission is expressly granted by the Company. Modification of the Content or use of the Content for any other purpose is a violation of the copyright and other proprietary rights of the Company, as well as other authors who created the materials, and may be subject to monetary damages and penalties. You may not distribute, modify, transmit or use the content of the Site or any Content, including any and all software, tools, graphics and/or sound files, for public or commercial purposes without the express written permission of the Company.

  2. All Content, such as text, data, graphics files, videos and sound files, and other materials contained in the Site, are copyrighted unless otherwise noted and are the property of the Company and/or a supplier to the Company. No such materials may be used except as provided in these Terms of Use.

  3. All trade names, trademarks, and images and biographical information of people used in the Company Content and contained in the Site, are either the property of, or used with permission by, the Company. The use of Content by you is strictly prohibited unless specifically permitted by these Terms of Use. Any unauthorized use of Content may violate the copyright, trademark, and other proprietary rights of the Company and/or third parties, as well as the laws of privacy and publicity, and other regulations and statutes. Nothing contained in this Agreement or in the Site shall be construed as granting, by implication or otherwise, any license or right to use any Trademark or other proprietary information without the express written consent of the Company or third party owner. The Company respects the copyright, trademark and all other intellectual property rights of others. The Company has the right, but has no obligation, to remove content and accounts containing materials that it deems, in its sole discretion, to be unlawful, offensive, threatening, libelous, defamatory, pornographic, obscene or otherwise objectionable or violates any party's intellectual property or these Terms of Use. If you believe that your intellectual property rights are being violated and/or that any work belonging to you has been reproduced on the Site or in any Content in any way, you may notify Company at hello@smafh.store . Please provide your name and contact information, the nature of your work and how it is being violated, all relevant copyright and/or trademark registration information, the location/URL of the violation, and any other information you believe is relevant.

  4. While the Company uses reasonable efforts to include accurate and up-to-date information in the Site, the Company makes no warranties or representations as to its accuracy. The Company assumes no liability or responsibility for any errors or omissions in the content of the Site.

  5. When you register with the Company and/or this Site, you expressly consent to receive any notices, announcements, agreements, disclosures, reports, documents, communications concerning new products or services, or other records or correspondence from the Company. You consent to receive notices electronically by way of transmitting the notice to you by email.

  6. Customer Submissions, Feedback, and Educational Use

    Strong Men Ask for Help welcomes feedback, reflections, testimonials, personal stories, suggestions, and other contributions from customers and students participating in its educational programs and services.

    Customers retain ownership of their original submissions. By voluntarily submitting materials through designated course activities, feedback forms, surveys, or testimonial features, customers grant Strong Men Ask for Help a non-exclusive, royalty-free license to use, reproduce, adapt, summarize, and incorporate those submissions into its educational materials, program development, and promotional communications, subject to applicable law and the privacy protections described below.

    Strong Men Ask for Help may use excerpts, composite examples, or de-identified accounts of customer experiences to illustrate educational concepts, demonstrate practical applications, and communicate the potential value of its programs.

    Before publishing such material, Strong Men Ask for Help will take reasonable steps to remove or alter identifying details and avoid disclosures that could reasonably identify an individual. De-identification alone does not authorize publication where additional consent is required by applicable law.

    Submissions may be edited for clarity, length, and readability, provided that edits do not materially misrepresent the customer's experience. Composite or illustrative examples will not be presented as verbatim testimonials from an actual individual.

    Contributions made within the Strong Men Ask for Help Community will be subject to separate Community Guidelines governing participation, privacy, moderation, and the use of member-generated content.

    Private coaching conversations, confidential intake responses, and personal information disclosed solely to obtain individualized services will not be used for public promotional purposes without appropriate authorization.

    Strong Men Ask for Help may use feedback and submissions internally to improve its services, subject to its Privacy Policy and applicable legal obligations.

  7. The Company shall use commercially reasonable efforts to restrict unauthorized access to our data and files. However no system whether or not password protected can be entirely impenetrable. You acknowledge that it may be possible for an unauthorized third party to access, view, copy, modify, or distribute the data and files you store using the Site. Use of the Site is completely at your own risk.

  8. The Company will not intentionally disclose any personally identifying information about you to third parties, except where the Company, in good faith, believes such disclosure is necessary to comply with the law or enforce these Terms of Use. By using the Site, you signify your acceptance of the Company's Privacy Policy. If you do not agree with this Privacy Policy, in whole or part, please do not use this Site.

  9. NEITHER THE COMPANY NOR ANY OTHER PARTY INVOLVED IN CREATING, PRODUCING, OR MAINTAINING THE SITE AND/OR ANY CONTENT ON THE SITE SHALL BE LIABLE UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES FOR ANY DIRECT, INCIDENTAL, CONSEQUENTIAL, INDIRECT, OR PUNITIVE DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF YOUR ACCESS TO OR USE OF THE SITE. WITHOUT LIMITING THE FOREGOING, ALL CONTENT ON THE SITE IS PROVIDED "AS IS" WITHOUT WARRANTY OF ANY KIND, EITHER EXPRESSED OR IMPLIED, INCLUDING, BUT NOT LIMITED TO, THE IMPLIED WARRANTIES OF MERCHANTABILITY OR FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE. THE COMPANY DOES NOT WARRANT OR MAKE ANY REPRESENTATIONS REGARDING THE USE OF THE MATERIALS IN THE SITE, THE RESULTS OF THE USE OF SUCH MATERIALS, THE SUITABILITY OF SUCH MATERIALS FOR ANY USER'S NEEDS OR THE LIKELIHOOD THAT THEIR USE WILL MEET ANY USER'S EXPECTATIONS, OR THEIR CORRECTNESS, ACCURACY, RELIABILITY, OR CORRECTION. STRONG MEN ASK FOR HELP DOES NOT WARRANT OR GUARANTEE ANY PARTICULAR PERSONAL, EMOTIONAL, RELATIONSHIP, PROFESSIONAL, OR FINANCIAL OUTCOME FROM PARTICIPATION IN ITS COURSES, COACHING SERVICES, OR OTHER EDUCATIONAL PROGRAMS. INDIVIDUAL EXPERIENCES AND RESULTS MAY VARY.

    THE COMPANY'S COURSES, COACHING SESSIONS, WORKBOOKS, AND RELATED MATERIALS ARE PROVIDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND PERSONAL-DEVELOPMENT PURPOSES. THEY ARE NOT INTENDED TO REPLACE PSYCHOTHERAPY, MENTAL-HEALTH TREATMENT, MEDICAL CARE, LEGAL ADVICE, FINANCIAL ADVICE, OR EMERGENCY CRISIS SERVICES.

    CUSTOMERS REMAIN RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN DECISIONS, ACTIONS, AND APPLICATION OF THE INFORMATION AND SKILLS PRESENTED.

    ANY FUTURE AFFILIATE OR REFERRAL COMPENSATION ARRANGEMENTS WILL BE GOVERNED BY SEPARATE APPLICABLE PROGRAM TERMS. PARTICIPATION IN SUCH ARRANGEMENTS DOES NOT GUARANTEE ANY PARTICULAR LEVEL OF EARNINGS OR COMMISSIONS. THE COMPANY DOES NOT WARRANT THAT USE OF THE MATERIALS WILL BE UNINTERRUPTED OR ERROR FREE, THAT DEFECTS WILL BE CORRECTED, OR THAT THIS SITE, THE CONTENT, AND/OR THE MATERIALS AVAILABLE ON THIS SITE ARE FREE FROM BUGS OR VIRUSES OR OTHER HARMFUL COMPONENTS. YOU ASSUME ALL RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE COST OF ALL NECESSARY REPAIRS OR CORRECTIONS. THE COMPANY SHALL NOT BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY PERFORMANCE OR SERVICE PROBLEMS CAUSED BY ANY THIRD PARTY WEBSITE OR THIRD PARTY SERVICE PROVIDER. ANY SUCH PROBLEM SHALL BE GOVERNED SOLELY BY THE AGREEMENT BETWEEN YOU AND THAT PROVIDER. Please note that the applicable jurisdiction may not allow the exclusion of implied warranties. Some of the above exclusions may thus not apply to you.

  10. THE COMPANY SHALL NOT BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY PERFORMANCE OR SERVICE PROBLEMS CAUSED BY ANY THIRD PARTY WEBSITE OR THIRD PARTY SERVICE PROVIDER (including, for example, your web service provider service, Stripe payment services, your software and/or any updates or upgrades to that software). ANY SUCH PROBLEM SHALL BE GOVERNED SOLELY BY THE AGREEMENT BETWEEN YOU AND THAT PROVIDER. THE COMPANY RESERVES THE RIGHT TO DETERMINE, IN ITS SOLE DISCRETION, WHETHER THE COMPANY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY SUCH MALFUNCTION OR DISRUPTION. THE COMPANY ALSO RESERVES THE RIGHT TO LIMIT YOUR USE OF THE SITE AND/OR THE CONTENT OR TO TERMINATE YOUR ACCOUNT SHOULD THE COMPANY DETERMINE THAT YOU HAVE VIOLATED THESE TERMS OF USE, OR THAT YOU HAVE VIOLATED ANY OTHER RULES OR CONDITIONS OF THE COMPANY. THE COMPANY RESERVES THE RIGHT TO REFUSE ACCESS TO THE SITE AND/OR THE COMPANY'S CONTENT, PRODUCTS AND/OR SERVICES TO ANYONE IN ITS SOLE DISCRETION. THE COMPANY RESERVES THE RIGHT TO DETERMINE, IN ITS SOLE DISCRETION, WHETHER THE COMPANY IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY SUCH MALFUNCTION OR DISRUPTION. DUE TO THE NATURE OF THE DIGITAL PRODUCT, THERE ARE NO REFUNDS OFFERED.

  11. You agree that you will pay for all products you purchase through the Company. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE TIMELY PAYMENT OF ALL FEES AND FOR PROVIDING THE COMPANY WITH A VALID PAYMENT METHOD FOR PAYMENT OF ALL FEES. ALL SALES OF PRODUCTS ARE FINAL. Prices for products offered by the Company may change at any time, and the Company does not provide price protection or refunds in the event of a price reduction or promotional offering. If a product becomes unavailable following a transaction but prior to download, your sole remedy is a refund. If technical problems prevent or unreasonably delay delivery of your product, your exclusive and sole remedy is either replacement or refund of the price paid, as determined by the Company.

  12. IN NO EVENT SHALL THE COMPANY BE LIABLE FOR ANY SPECIAL, INCIDENTAL, INDIRECT, PUNITIVE, RELIANCE OR CONSEQUENTIAL DAMAGES, WHETHER FORESEEABLE OR NOT, INCLUDING, BUT NOT LIMITED TO, DAMAGE OR LOSS OF PROPERTY, EQUIPMENT, INFORMATION OR DATA, LOSS OF PROFITS, REVENUE OR GOODWILL, COST OF CAPITAL, COST OF REPLACEMENT SERVICES, OR CLAIMS FOR SERVICE INTERRUPTIONS OR TRANSMISSION PROBLEMS, OCCASIONED BY ANY DEFECT IN THE SITE, THE CONTENT, AND/OR RELATED MATERIALS, THE INABILITY TO USE SERVICES PROVIDED HEREUNDER OR ANY OTHER CAUSE WHATSOEVER WITH RESPECT THERETO, REGARDLESS OF THEORY OF LIABILITY. THIS LIMITATION WILL APPLY EVEN IF THE COMPANY HAS BEEN ADVISED OR IS AWARE OF THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH DAMAGES.

  13. Coaching Sessions, Cancellations, and Rescheduling

    If your purchase includes a private coaching session with Strong Men Ask for Help, you are responsible for scheduling and attending your appointment.

    All coaching session bookings are nonrefundable, except where otherwise required by applicable law or where Strong Men Ask for Help is unable to provide the purchased service.

    If you need to cancel or request rescheduling, please email sessions@smafh.store at least 48 hours before your scheduled appointment.

    Include the subject line:

    SESSION CANCELLATION — [Date and Time of Appointment]

    Cancellations or rescheduling requests made less than 48 hours before the scheduled appointment, as well as missed appointments, will result in forfeiture of the session without refund.

    If Strong Men Ask for Help must cancel an appointment, the customer will be offered a rescheduled appointment or a refund.

  14. You agree to indemnify and hold the Company and each of its directors, officers employees, and agents, harmless from any and all liabilities, claims, damages and expenses, including reasonable attorney's fees, arising out of or relating to (i) your breach of this Agreement, (ii) any violation by you of law or the rights of any third party, (iii) any materials, information, works and/or other content of whatever nature or media that you post or share on or through the Site, (iv) your use of the Site or any services that the Company may provide via the Site, and (v) your conduct in connection with the Site or the services or with other users of the Site or the services. The Company reserves the right to assume the exclusive defense of any claim for which we are entitled to indemnification under this Section. In such an event, you shall provide the Company with such cooperation as is reasonably requested by the Company.

  15. The provisions of these Terms of Use are for the benefit of the Company, its subsidiaries, affiliates and its third party content providers and licensors, and each shall have the right to assert and enforce such provisions directly or on its own behalf.

  16. Governing Law and Jurisdiction

    This Agreement shall be governed by and construed in accordance with the laws of the State of Georgia, without giving effect to its conflict-of-law principles.

    To the extent permitted by applicable law, any legal action arising out of or relating to this Agreement shall be brought in a court of competent jurisdiction located in Newton County, Georgia, and the parties consent to the jurisdiction and venue of such courts.

    Nothing in this provision shall limit any rights or protections that cannot lawfully be waived under applicable law.

    If any provision of this Agreement is found to be unlawful, void, or unenforceable, that provision shall be deemed severable, and the remaining provisions shall remain in effect.

  17. These Terms of Use may be revised from time to time by updating this posting. You are bound by any such revisions and should therefore periodically visit this page to review the current Terms and Conditions

STRONG MEN ASK FOR HELP

PRIVACY POLICY

Effective Date: October 27, 2026

Strong Men Ask for Help ("SMAFH," "we," "us," or "our") respects the privacy of the individuals who visit our websites, purchase our products, participate in our educational programs, or use our coaching services.

This Privacy Policy describes how we collect, use, disclose, and protect personal information through our websites, including smafh.com and stan.store/smafh, and our related products and services.

1. Information We Collect

Depending on how you interact with SMAFH, we may collect:

  • Contact information: Name, email address, telephone number, and information voluntarily provided through contact or interest forms.

  • Purchase and booking information: Products purchased, transaction details, appointment dates, and information needed to arrange coaching sessions.

  • Educational participation information: Course feedback, workbook responses submitted to us, surveys, reflections, and other materials voluntarily shared through our educational programs.

  • Coaching information: Information voluntarily provided through appointment intake forms or during coaching communications.

  • Technical information: Information that our website, store, and service providers may collect, such as device information, browser information, IP addresses, cookies, and website usage data.

Payment transactions are processed through third-party payment providers. SMAFH does not ordinarily receive or store complete payment-card numbers.

2. How We Use Information

We may use personal information to:

  • Provide purchased courses, coaching sessions, and related services.

  • Process orders, manage bookings, and send service-related communications.

  • Respond to questions and provide customer support.

  • Improve our educational programs, website, and customer experience.

  • Send promotional communications where permitted by law and applicable marketing preferences.

  • Develop educational examples, materials, and program improvements using appropriately de-identified information.

  • Maintain security, prevent misuse, and comply with applicable legal obligations.

3. Customer Stories, Feedback, and Educational Materials

SMAFH recognizes the educational value of personal experiences and customer feedback.

We may use voluntarily submitted course feedback, reflections, and stories in accordance with our Terms and Conditions and applicable law.

When using customer experiences in educational or promotional materials without identifying the individual, we will take reasonable steps to remove or alter information that could reasonably identify the person.

Where identification remains reasonably possible or additional authorization is legally required, we will obtain appropriate permission before publication.

Private coaching conversations and confidential intake responses will not be used for public promotional purposes without appropriate authorization.

4. How We Share Information

We do not sell customer contact lists to third-party advertisers.

We may share information with service providers that help us operate our business, including website hosting, course delivery, payment processing, appointment scheduling, video conferencing, email delivery, and customer support.

These providers may process information as necessary to deliver their services and in accordance with their applicable agreements and privacy practices.

We may also disclose information when required by law, to respond to valid legal processes, to protect rights and safety, or in connection with a lawful business transfer.

5. Privacy of Coaching Communications

We treat personal information shared in private coaching communications with care and discretion.

SMAFH coaching is an educational and personal-development service, not psychotherapy or a licensed healthcare service. Coaching communications are not automatically protected by the legal privileges that may apply to certain licensed professional relationships.

We do not promise absolute confidentiality. Information may be disclosed when required or permitted by applicable law or when reasonably necessary to address serious safety concerns.

6. Community Participation

If SMAFH offers an online Community, participation may involve sharing information with other members.

Information voluntarily posted in shared Community spaces may be visible to other authorized participants.

Members should avoid posting information they do not wish others to see or retain. SMAFH cannot guarantee that other participants will maintain the privacy of information shared within the Community.

Separate Community Guidelines may provide additional participation and privacy expectations.

7. Cookies and Website Technologies

Our websites and third-party platforms may use cookies and similar technologies to support website functionality, understand usage, and improve services.

The availability of cookie controls depends on the relevant website or platform. Visitors may also be able to manage certain cookies through their browser settings.

Where legally required, we will provide additional notice or choices regarding nonessential tracking technologies.

8. Data Security and Retention

We take reasonable administrative and technical measures to protect personal information.

However, no internet-based system or electronic communication method can be guaranteed completely secure.

We retain information for as long as reasonably necessary to provide services, maintain appropriate business records, resolve disputes, comply with legal requirements, and fulfill the purposes described in this Policy.

Retention periods may vary depending on the type of information and applicable obligations.

9. Your Privacy Choices and Requests

You may contact SMAFH to request information about the personal data we maintain about you, request corrections, or ask that information be deleted.

We will evaluate and respond to requests in accordance with applicable law. Certain information may need to be retained for legitimate business, contractual, security, or legal purposes.

You may unsubscribe from promotional emails using the unsubscribe instructions provided in those messages, where applicable.

10. Children's Privacy

SMAFH's courses, coaching services, and related programs are intended for adults aged 18 and older.

We do not knowingly collect personal information directly from children under 18 through these services. If we learn that we have collected such information contrary to this policy, we will take appropriate steps to address it.

11. Third-Party Websites and Services

Our websites and services may contain links to third-party websites or use external platforms.

Those services operate under their own terms and privacy policies. We encourage customers to review the privacy practices of third-party providers.

12. Changes to This Privacy Policy

We may update this Privacy Policy as our services, technologies, or legal obligations change.

The updated version will be posted with a revised effective date. We will provide additional notice when required by applicable law.

13. Contact Us

For questions or requests concerning this Privacy Policy, please contact:

Strong Men Ask for Help

Email: hello@smafh.store

Website: https://smafh.com

Store: https://stan.store/smafh

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