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Sovereign Love NYC

Danny & Vanessa Panzella-Velez, Psychedelic, Relationship, Poly & Kink Coaching

About Sovereign Love

About Sovereign Love

We are Danny & Vanessa, we are trauma-informed psychedelic integration coaches, relationship guides, and facilitators of transformational spaces where sexuality, shadow work, and spirituality meet.

Our work lives at the intersection of intimacy, kink, psychedelics, and deep psychological healing. We help individuals and couples explore the parts of themselves that have been suppressed, shamed, or misunderstood—and transform those parts into sources of power, connection, and aliveness.

Through a blend of somatic practices, shadow work, non-violent communication, and tantric principles, We guide people into deeper intimacy with themselves, their partners, and their desires.

This is not surface-level self-help. This is work for people who are ready to meet themselves fully—light and dark—and create relationships rooted in truth, desire, and emotional depth.


Our Approach

Our work is deeply influenced by:

  • Trauma-informed care and nervous system regulation

  • Shadow work and Jungian psychology

  • Nonviolent Communication (NVC)

  • Tantric and Taoist sexual philosophy

  • Psychedelic integration frameworks

  • Somatic and embodiment practices

Vanessa and I believe that our desires—especially the ones we judge—are doorways into healing. Jealousy, shame, power dynamics, and erotic expression are not problems to eliminate, but energies to understand and integrate.

We offer different ways of engaging with this healing work including:

  • 1:1 & Relationship Coaching

  • "One Day Retreat" Healing Experiences

  • Temple Night NYC: Our Signature Ceremonial Tantra Event

  • Kinky Karaoke

  • Kinky Figure Drawing

  • Our Psychedelics 101 Online Course

  • "Kinky Shadow Work" Workshop Series

Who Is Our Work For?

  • Those who feel called to explore sexuality as a path of growth

  • Those navigating non-monogamy or kink dynamics

  • Those who want to heal trauma without bypassing the body

  • Those who are curious about psychedelics as a healing tool

  • Those who are ready to face their shadow and expand their capacity for love

Call to Action

  • Book a FREE Exploratory Session

  • Join an Upcoming Workshop

  • Attend a Temple Night NYC Experience

  • Enroll in Psychedelics 101 Online Course

Invitation

If you’re ready to explore the edges of your identity, your desires, and your relationships—this work is for you. You don’t need to be perfect. You just need to be willing. Let’s do the work that most people avoid—and discover what becomes possible on the other side.

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