Kinky Shadow Work Workshop Series
A Transformational Journey Into Desire, Shadow, and Intimacy
The Kinky Shadow Work Series is a collection of immersive, trauma-informed workshops designed for people who want to explore the deeper psychological, emotional, and spiritual dimensions of kink, sexuality, and non-traditional relationships.
These are not just educational spaces—they are experiential portals.
Each workshop is crafted to help you uncover unconscious patterns, move stuck emotional energy, and reclaim parts of yourself that have been shaped by shame, conditioning, and past experiences.
Through a blend of shadow work, somatic practices, communication tools, and ritual, you’ll learn how to transform your triggers into growth, your desires into insight, and your relationships into containers for real transformation.
The Workshops
Trauma-Informed Kink 101
Kink can be a powerful space for healing—but only when practiced with awareness, consent, and care.
This foundational workshop introduces kink through a trauma-informed lens, making it accessible for both beginners and experienced practitioners.
You’ll learn:
The intersection of trauma and kink
Nervous system awareness and regulation in scenes
Consent, negotiation, and aftercare essentials
How to create safe, intentional, and transformative kink experiences
Decolonizing Polyamory: Unlearning Mononormativity & Building Community
Many people approach polyamory by recreating monogamous structures in multiple relationships—often leading to pressure, hierarchy, and disconnection.
This workshop invites a radical shift.
We explore a more community-centered, relational approach inspired by indigenous and village-based ways of connecting.
You’ll learn:
How mono-normativity shapes expectations in non-monogamy
The limitations of “multiple monogamous-style relationships”
How to decenter the couple as the primary unit
Ways to build interconnected, supportive relationship ecosystems
Boundaries & Consent for People Pleasers
If you struggle to say no, overextend yourself, or prioritize others’ needs over your own, this workshop is designed for you.
We explore how people-pleasing is often a trauma response rooted in safety, belonging, and fear of rejection—and how it shows up in kink and relationships.
You’ll learn how to:
Identify your authentic yes and no
Set clear, embodied boundaries without guilt
Navigate consent as an ongoing, relational practice
Build self-trust and emotional safety in connection
Beyond Jealousy: Shadow Work for Non-Monogamy
Jealousy isn’t something to suppress—it’s something to understand.
This workshop reframes jealousy as a powerful gateway into your shadow, revealing unmet needs, insecurities, and deeper desires.
You’ll explore:
The emotional roots of jealousy
How attachment wounds and past experiences shape your reactions
Tools to regulate your nervous system in triggering moments
How to transform jealousy into clarity, communication, and connection
Womb Wisdom: A Somatic Yoni De-Armoring Experience
A deeply embodied workshop for those with womb space who are ready to release stored tension, trauma, and emotional holding in the body.
This experience blends somatic practices, breathwork, and guided processes to support reconnection with your body and sexual energy.
You’ll be guided to:
Access and release stored emotional and physical tension
Reconnect with sensation, pleasure, and intuition
Explore boundaries and consent within your own body
Cultivate a deeper relationship with your womb as a source of wisdom
Sacred Intimacy: Rituals for Deeper Connection
Intimacy doesn’t just happen—it’s cultivated.
This couples workshop introduces ritual as a powerful tool to deepen connection, presence, and emotional attunement between partners.
You’ll learn and practice:
Presence-based connection exercises that will ignite your erotic energy
Communication rituals rooted in vulnerability and truth
Touch practices that build trust and safety
How to create intentional containers for intimacy in your relationships
WhoreCraft: Sex Magick Rituals
A provocative and empowering exploration of sexuality as a spiritual and creative force.
This workshop blends sex magick, intention setting, and ritual practice to help you harness erotic energy for manifestation, healing, and transformation.
You’ll explore:
The fundamentals of sex magick
How to work with intention, energy, and desire
Releasing shame around erotic expression
Creating personal and partnered rituals for manifestation
Who This Series Is For
People exploring kink, BDSM, or non-monogamy
Those interested in shadow work and personal transformation
Individuals and couples wanting deeper intimacy and communication
Anyone ready to face their patterns and expand their capacity for connection
The Invitation
This work will challenge you. It will open you. It will show you parts of yourself you may have spent years avoiding.
And if you let it—it will transform the way you relate to desire, power, and love.
Call to Action
Join the Kinky Shadow Work Series and step into a deeper, more embodied, and more honest version of yourself.
Spots are limited for each workshop to maintain intimacy and safety.
Reserve your place now.