Psychedelic Relationship Coaching
Vanessa & I have Been To Relationship Hell and Back...
We did everything that you could possibly do wrong in a relationship. We were both married before and had no idea we were carrying unhealthy patterns & habits from previous relationships as well as childhood traumas into this one... some of the MOST painful experiences we suffered through in our relationship include:
Constant Disconnection & Fighting
Domestic Violence
Infidelity & Sex Addiction
Alcoholism
Narcissism
Co-Dependency
Suicide Attempts
FINALLY... After YEARS of chaos, family interventions and failed couples therapy we were guided by a trusted friend to psychedelic medicines along with "shadow work" techniques. It took years of struggle and resistance to get the hang of the healing work but when we put those healing techniques to work in our lives and we began to experience:
Emotional INTIMACY
Increased Affection
Healthy Habits
Sacred Sexuality
Empathy
Healthy Boundaries
Joy & Gratitude
When our friends and family saw the transformation in our relationship they wanted to know how we transformed ourselves! They started to come to us with THEIR relationship challenges...
We then began to work with couples and started to see the same unhealthy patterns & core wounds that we experienced! So many couples have become comfortably numb in their misery that...
It EXCITES US to see couples in pain!
Don't get me wrong, we don't enjoy seeing people in pain. We aren't sadists but until we heal ourselves, the pain is there even if we don't consciously realize it. We are distracting ourselves, or have numbed ourselves to it.
If we aren't EXPRESSING our pain, we are SUPPRESSING it.
Denial is a dangerous place for people in pain to be... there is no chance to heal until we are willing to face our issues. When we are struggling with depression or emotional pain the discomfort pushes us to heal!
Science has now proven that un-dealt with emotional pain becomes physical illness!
So when we see couples expressing their pain we know that they are READY TO HEAL!
"Be The Change You Want to See in the World" - Gandhi
I want to be clear... Vanessa and I do not claim to be GURUS or even experts, we just have the experience of having been through so much trauma and come out the other side healed that we feel a tremendous desire to help other couples experience the same unconditional love and deep intimacy in partnership that we are experiencing (and it literally gets better EVERY DAY! )
I'm not exaggerating, when you start to apply our simple (notice I said simple... not easy) techniques to your life on a daily basis you will see daily transformation, experience more JOY, more GRATITUDE & more LOVE!
Your "emotional cup" will be filled and you will then radiate love and joy out to everyone around you... literally inspiring your social circles to HEAL as well! We believe this is what Jesus, the Buddha, Gandhi and other great teachers throughout time have wanted humanity to understand!
Are YOU in Relationship Hell?
Or maybe just purgatory? Can you relate to any of the negative patterns we experienced?
Do you feel LOST in your relationship?
Are you struggling with ADDICTIONS to negative emotions, substances or even drama?
Do you LOVE your partner but are FRUSTRATED about how to make it work?
Are you and your partner FIGHTING constantly?
Do you feel like your partner DOESN'T UNDERSTAND you?
Are YOU ready to HEAL your relationship?
Vanessa and I offer a FREE, no-obligation exploratory session to talk about your relationship challenges and develop a strategy of healing. Tell us a little bit more about yourself below and we will contact you to schedule your free exploratory session.
Read our Reviews:
Darlene Ollada
Sovereign Love has been more insightful than some of my $200 therapy sessions for real! Y'all really break the barriers of healing relationships. I appreciate the honesty SOO much regarding the problems you've had and still encounter today. Gives me a lot of freedom to work through my relationship woes while also de-stigmatizing toxicity in relationships by reframing toxic behaviors as a result of trauma which allows so much vulnerability for couples to grow. It takes the shame out of being in a relationship that have heavy problems in order to move towards love. Much Love XOXO
Lauren Herrera
As my fiancé and I were driving through town yesterday evening, admiring the beautiful Christmas lights, I was overcome by emotion - almost exactly one year ago, our entire relationship imploded and we were dangling by a thread. Danny and Vanessa, our brother and sister - in the most amazing experience of my entire life (ok, except childbirth because wow), took us back up onto solid ground. I will never be the same, because of their love, patience, spiritual guidance, empathy and generosity. The blessed gift of their time and selfless assistance, is irreplaceable. I love them both as my own brother and sister, and I love everyone around me much more deeply than I had ever let myself feel before. And, a year later, I am blessed beyond words, to still be in the arms of the love of my life. I am forever grateful to you both, D & V, and I love you infinitely. ❤️❤️
Volixen Sadok
While I was in a long term codependent, abusive and toxic relationship, Vanessa and Danny helped me feel seen, understood and supported. They were able to hear what kind of life I actually wanted, pointed out my blind-spots and guided me toward a happiness of my own choosing. I'd highly recommend them to any loved one who is looking to do internal healing with guidance and support.