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Samuel Iwar

Physician turned relational coach and creator of @thewakinghuman

Couples Coaching: 10 Sessions

Couples Coaching: 10 Sessions

CA$2,995

Most couples come in sure the real problem is communication.

I think communication is only the surface. Underneath every fight you keep having are two nervous systems trying to feel safe, two histories shaping how tonight actually goes, and two people longing to be seen in ways they might not even have words for yet.

You come in with the dishes, the tone he used, the thing she said at dinner. That is the surface. Underneath it is a pattern the two of you have been running for years, mostly without noticing. One reaches, the other pulls back. One gets loud, one goes quiet. The subject changes every time. The pattern does not.

So this is not ten sessions of learning how to stop fighting. It is ten sessions of understanding why you keep having the same fight, and what it is trying to teach you. Because it is trying to teach you something.

WHAT WE EXPLORE

Where the pattern comes from. Attachment, and what each of you does when you are scared the other will not reach back. The family history and the old rules about love and conflict you picked up long before you met. The quiet expectations neither of you ever said out loud. What love, commitment, and closeness actually mean to each of you, because they almost never mean the same thing.

I use a few different approaches along the way, including the Gottman Method, which I am trained in through Level 2. But I am not here to run you through a workbook. I care more about the why underneath your particular pattern than about any one method.

WHAT YOU GET

Ten 90 minute sessions for the two of you

A private booking link, so you are not waiting on my calendar

15% off the normal price. $2,995 instead of $3,525, so you save $530

Sessions on Zoom

A welcome packet with the full plan and the rules in plain language

WHO THIS IS FOR

Two people who are both willing to look at their own part. You do not have to be hopeful. You do not have to be sure it will work. You both just have to be willing to look. If you are buying this hoping your partner will finally get set straight, please do not. It will not work and I would rather tell you now.

HOW OFTEN WE MEET

Every week, or every two weeks at the most. Two calendars make that harder and I know it. Protect the slot anyway. At the end of each session we book the next one before anyone leaves the call.

Somewhere around session three, one of you might want to stop, either because it suddenly feels fixed or because it starts to feel raw. Both are normal, and both are worth bringing into the room rather than acting on.

IF YOU STOP EARLY

It ends if either of you calls it, or if I do. The discount was for booking all ten. You pay the normal price of $352.50 for the sessions you used and the rest goes back to whoever paid. Stop after three, get $1,937.50 back.

THE RULES

Book your first session in the next 14 days. If you have not booked by day 14, the clock starts anyway. Your sessions run out six months after session one. Both of you come. If only one of you shows up, the session is used. Give me 24 hours notice to move a session. Late cancellations and no shows use up the session. Sessions cannot be given to anyone else.

This is coaching, not therapy. It is not a replacement for mental health treatment. It is also not right if there is violence, threat, or fear in your relationship, or if either of you is in crisis. If any of that is going on, tell me and I will help you find the right person instead.

The full rules come with your welcome packet.

Start With Ten

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