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Private Advising is my highest-touch work. We meet for two 90-minute sessions every month, and between sessions you have direct access to me through Telegram, so the work stays connected to your real life instead of living only on our calls.
This is for the season when a single conversation is not enough. The argument that keeps repeating. The pattern you can see but cannot seem to break. The homework that raises harder questions than it answers. You bring what is real, and we walk through it with Scripture and honest conversation, month after month.
What's included
- Two 90-minute 1:1 advising sessions every month, scheduled around your life
- Between-session access through Telegram, with replies within 24 hours:
- Homework questions answered without waiting for the next session
- Support within a day when a hard moment hits
- Scheduling and rescheduling handled directly
- Document and file sharing (worksheets, notes, anything relevant)
- Voice or video calls through Telegram when a message is not enough, without using up your session time
- Private and confidential: only you (or you and your spouse) and me
How this differs from a 1:1 session
A 1:1 session is a single focused conversation. We go deep once, and you leave with clarity and next steps. Private Advising is ongoing coaching: two sessions a month, direct access between them, and someone in your corner for the whole stretch, not just the hour.
What the first 90 days look like
Every client's work is personal, but the shape of the first three months follows a pattern.
Month 1: Map. We slow down your recurring patterns and separate what happened from what it came to mean. You will learn to trace a surface reaction down to the belief underneath it, and that belief down to the fear driving it, then test each layer against Scripture. Between sessions you will work through short guided reflections built for your situation. The goal of month one is clarity: naming what is actually happening instead of fighting a vague fog.
Month 2: Rebuild. With the map in hand, we rebuild. You will develop renewed beliefs grounded in specific passages of Scripture, and practice them through real communication tools: expressing needs clearly, making clean requests, setting boundaries you can actually keep, and repairing when you get it wrong. Regulation tools and pause plans go in here too, so you can create space to choose instead of reacting on autopilot.
Month 3: Systematize. Insight fades without structure, so month three is about building systems around everything you have learned: trigger plans, truth cards, environmental changes, a connection plan for hard moments, and simple daily and weekly review rhythms. You leave with a personal response plan you can run on your own, including a recovery protocol for when old patterns resurface.
Progress here looks like noticing sooner, believing the old message less completely, recovering faster, and choosing a more truthful action while the feeling is still there. Not perfection. Practice.
Who this is for
- Couples or individuals who want consistent, personal coaching on their marriage, healing, or growth
- People who are ready to do the homework, not just talk about it
Who this is not for
- This is coaching and advising, not licensed therapy or counseling. If you need clinical care, I will tell you that honestly and help you find it.
- This is not for anyone looking for a quick fix or a one-time call.
The cap
I take at most 5 couples or 10 individuals at a time. That is a real number, not a sales tactic: it is how many people I can serve well alongside everything else I do. When it is full, new applicants join a waitlist.
Investment
Contracts run 3 or 6 months. Three ways to pay.
Pay monthly (monthly rate x number of months, no discount)
- Individuals: $1,147/month ($3,441 for 3 months · $6,882 for 6 months)
- Couples: $1,721/month ($5,163 for 3 months · $10,326 for 6 months)
Pay in 3-month installments (15% off)
- First payment due within 24 hours of signing your contract. Second payment due between sessions 6 and 7, or months 3 and 4, whichever comes first.
- Individuals: $2,925 per installment ($5,850 total for 6 months)
- Couples: $4,389 per installment ($8,777 total for 6 months)
- On a 3-month contract, the installment is a single payment: $2,925 individuals · $4,389 couples
Pay all at once (15% off)
- Individuals: $2,925 for 3 months · $5,850 for 6 months
- Couples: $4,389 for 3 months · $8,777 for 6 months
Cancellation
You can cancel anytime, and cancelling ends your future monthly payments. Prepaid amounts are non-refundable. The contract length simply sets a defined end date for our work together.
Renewal
Every contract includes a one-time right to renew. If you renew, you receive the same contract length, sessions, and deliverables at the same price, even if my rates have increased for new clients. When that renewal term ends, current pricing applies.
How to start
1. Complete the short application below (5 minutes).
2. If it looks like a potential fit, you will be invited to a free 45-minute consultation. Book it through the "Apply for Private Coaching: Free 45 Minute Consult" scheduling link. We talk through what you are facing, what the work would look like, and whether we are right for each other.
3. If we both want to move forward, we choose your contract length and payment method together, and we schedule your first session.